It has taken me a little while to share about this. I have been debating about this because although men have grabbed me without my consent, or have harassed me through social media sending me pictures of their dicks, or have made sexual implicit comments, I have never felt violated, so I didn’t know how to express my feelings regarding this. I have never felt violated because I know I’m bigger than those things and bigger than any fucking MAN that has tried to use his power to shut me down. My father raised me this way and he made sure I knew no MAN could bring me down.
I can probably count with the fingers of one hand the times men have touched me without my consent, and all those times I was able to defend myself. The men that did that to me paid the price. All of them got their ass kicked by me, some of them ran away and I’m sure they wished they had never done that. 😜
I guess by now some of the people that follow me on social media have become aware of my fire, so when I have found myself in these situations I have always been ready to fight and I did it well. 👊🏾 I have never been raped, or sexually abused, and I’m thankful for that. I know this is not the story for many women, I know this is not a common thing and that makes me mad.
I am very open and comfortable with my physical body, and one of the most important aspects of my work is to promote Self-love. Being able to love ourselves just the way we are. Being able to be comfortable with our physical body and being able to do with our bodies whatever we want.
The reason why I post a lot of edited nude pictures is to break the norm. We are used to see naked bodies all over the place. TV, magazines, billboards, etc. We see them and we accept that, because we think that’s okay, they are models, actresses, etc. We are okay with that objectification, It’s okay for them to do that, it’s part of their job, but when we see a regular woman wanting to do that, it’s not okay. There is a lot of taboo regarding this, so I want to break that norm, not just with men but also with women.
Women we have to worry about attracting the wrong attention from men if we do something “wrong”