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Xandria Ooi  Bite-sized inspirations & perspective โค๏ธ TV Host, Speaker โœจ KL www.xandriaooi.co FB live chats ๐Ÿ—ฏ: fb/xandriaooi New inspirational video EVERY DAY๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ

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I don't care. ๐Ÿคš๐Ÿป
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Nothing affects me because I don't care. โœ–๏ธ
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And if nothing really affects me, then Iโ€™ll be happy. โ˜‘๏ธ
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The last part is true - if we are not mentally or emotionally disturbed by anything then weโ€™ll always have a peace of mind and be happy. โ˜€๏ธ
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But not caring doesnโ€™t not mean that things don't affect us. Not caring indicates that we donโ€™t have any other way to not let things affect us so we revert to the most instinctive form of self-protection of defensiveness. And thatโ€ฆ is to harden ourselves to put up a wall, to block out. ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿป
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So that even as things affect us we can very effectively pretend they donโ€™t. ๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผWe can even feel proud of ourselves for our ability to not care so much. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ
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Saying that we donโ€™t care is a pretense because itโ€™s only when weโ€™re sensitive, only when weโ€™re easily hurt, or affected by negativity, that weโ€™ll turn to a coping mechanism like not caring. ๐Ÿค”
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And this is why the unpleasantness of life, the unpleasantness of people, affects us more and more, because we can only take so much before we burst apart at the seams, with our frustration and resentment manifesting in outbursts and consequences; affecting not only ourselves but the people around us. ๐Ÿ˜”
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When things genuinely donโ€™t affect us, it means that weโ€™ve developed the skills to rise above our negative emotions.It means weโ€™ve developed the skills to overcome any negative circumstances, to acknowledge them, to accept themโ€ฆ and then to let them go. ๐Ÿƒ
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Not caring is a coping mechanism, whereas letting go is a resolution. โœจ
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Strangely enough, it is only when we care enough to go through the discomfort of looking at ourselves of examining our own behaviour and our own negativity that weโ€™re able to build the muscles to not sweat the small stuff. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป
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It is when we care that weโ€™re not defensive but reflective - and thatโ€™s when we try to live life in positive ways that helps us be happy, always! โค๏ธ
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There's always going to be things about you that people adore, and things about you that people don't particularly like. ๐Ÿ˜ฒ There are going to be compliments, and there are going to be comments and criticisms that can sting or bring you down. ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ
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Every single person who's ever dared to do something with their life, who has ever dared to experiment with turning ideas into reality, who has ever dared make a difference... are people who, to a huge extent, brave enough to put themselves out there. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป
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But brave doesn't mean not feeling scared, or not feeling affected or torn apart by naysayers. ๐Ÿ˜“ But this is what being brave means - not that you have no fear, but that you have it in you to rise above that fear to keep doing what you do. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ It is precisely this vulnerability that builds true strength. ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿป
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People who are closed, who never try but can only criticise others, think they're strong, but are in fact just cowardly. ๐Ÿ˜ž People can say whatever want, but understand that it is those who say little about others and do more with their own life who will actually make a positive impact on this world. โœจ๐ŸŒ”
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Everybody has dreams, but it takes both vulnerability and strength to be more than a dreamer - to be a DOER. ๐Ÿ’ฏ Focus on being a better person and regardless of what anyone says, just keep doing what you do and you will be happy, always. โค๏ธ
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P/S: I was in Singapore this weekend and experienced the warmest and most helpful service from the front desk - thank you so much to Oasia Hotel front desk team, especially Fadhilah for going out of your way to help me! Very grateful โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผโค๏ธ

Ignorance is bliss. ๐Ÿค—
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That's not completely true because it's ignorance that leads to racism and discrimination, amongst many things. ๐Ÿ˜•
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However, sometimes, ignorance really does aid us in reaching for our dreams in a way that knowledge cannot. ๐ŸŒŸ Think of all that you went through to get to where you are today. ๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผIf you have had all the information back then, if you had all the knowledge of the problems, challenges, sweat and tears of what pursuing your dream entails... maybe you wouldn't even have started your journey. ๐Ÿ™€๐Ÿ˜“
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Of course the unknown is scary, but strangely enough, the bigger fear is to actually KNOW what we have to go through. ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ•ธ It's one thing to walk a path full of hope and determination, it's another thing to walk the same path already knowing the pitfalls that await us. ๐Ÿฆ‚
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Would you have done the things you've done if you've known how difficult it was? Would you have forged ahead if you had a good idea of how treacherous the journey would be? ๐Ÿค” We would probably hesitate, or we'd be tired just thinking about it. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ
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No matter how old we get, there's a part of us that thrives on ignorance, because it's precisely the lack of knowledge that leads to the lack of fear; that emboldens our spirit to pursue adventures. ๐Ÿ‘ฃ๐ŸŒ‡
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Ignorance at its finest is optimistic, it leads to curiosity and it will take us on journeys and lessons fraught with difficulties and failures... but it will also bring us joy and success and the experience of saying "I had no idea if it was going to work, but I dared to do it." ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿผ
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So wear the rose coloured glasses, dare to dream and if anyone tells you that you have no idea what you're doing, you can tell them it's precisely because you have no idea that you donโ€™t know WHAT to fearโ€ฆ and that's a recipe for success and a great way to be happy, always! โ™ฅ๏ธ
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Click on link in bio to watch 'When Ignorance Is Bliss' ๐Ÿ”๐Ÿ’‹ #behappyalways #BHA #lovebonitomy #lbootd

Even your worst enemy has a best friend. ๐Ÿค”When we think someone is despicable, itโ€™s usually because we cannot understand how they can say or do the things they do; Itโ€™s almost like theyโ€™re an alien. ๐Ÿ‘ฝ
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Itโ€™s hard to wrap our minds around the fact that there would be people who like them. ๐Ÿ˜’That somewhere out there, thereโ€™s a mother, a family, who loves this person. ๐Ÿ˜ผ So when we really hate someone, and we think about how there are other people who love them, we can really begin to see that perhaps this person has this other side that weโ€™ve not seen, maybe a side that they are not showing us. ๐Ÿ‘€
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We can really wonderโ€ฆ if we know the other aspects of someone, if we can see the backstory of someoneโ€™s behaviour, if we can experience the kindness they show the people they loveโ€ฆ would we still be able to hate this person? ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ
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We are going to meet many, many different people in this lifetime. Instead of disliking someone whom we do not understand, we can use that energy to be curious, to let that curiosity drive us to try understand the reasons behind why someone is the way he is. ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”
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The gift of being human, is that we cannot help but feel extremely connected to our humanity. ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ This means that when our brain starts to see something, starts to process something and understand something, we find it very, very hard to not relate, to not feel compassion. ๐Ÿ‘
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And so there is one very clear truth - and that is once we have understanding, it becomes impossible to judge, it becomes impossible to hate; even if we DISAGREE with the personโ€™s behaviour. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ We cannot hate something we understand. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ
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This is why when we seek to understand, we can never be unhappy. ๐ŸŒ“ When we have no enemies and no one we dislike, all weโ€™ll have is a profound clarity that there are no good people or bad people - thereโ€™s just what is. ๐ŸƒAnd this is when weโ€™re free to be happy, always. โ™ฅ๏ธ
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Are you completely and a 100% happy with who you are? โ˜€๏ธ
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In this day and age, it's easier than ever to compare ourselves to people, with social media, all it takes is one look at other people's Instagram and Facebook to see how full and happy someone's life is. ๐Ÿ›ซ๐Ÿ–๐Ÿ—ฝ๐Ÿฅ‚๐ŸŽ‰
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We all have role models whose characteristics we want to emulate, whose amazing life is so inspiring we want to create that same life for ourselves. ๐Ÿ˜ But there is a clear difference between wishing we could be MORE like someone, and wishing we were someone else entirely. ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ The former makes us feel hopeful and inspired, and the latter is just depressing because we can never be anyone else. -
We only have this body, this luck, this looks, this job and this life; and if we feel that it isn't good enough, then it'll probably never be good enough. ๐Ÿ˜ฟ
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Don't feel that you've got the raw end of the deal. ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿป Don't think that life is unfair. ๐Ÿฅ€ Don't think that people are prettier or luckier than you. ๐Ÿ˜” Don't ever see yourself as a victim, or someone who's drawn the shorter end of the straw. โœ–๏ธ
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Because the secret to success, the secret to happiness and having that dream life; is to see how abundant we are instead of how lacking. ๐Ÿ’ซ๐ŸŒž The moment we change the way we see ourselves, our experiences too will change accordingly. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป
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There's so much power in how we perceive people and how we perceive ourselves. We shouldn't give that power away by feeling sorry for ourselves, but to use that power by improving our lives. ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿป
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We are who we are, no one can be us and that in itself is special. ๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿƒ Embrace the power you have in charting your own path, without looking at other people's paths... and that's a healthy and wonderful way to be happy, always. โ™ฅ๏ธ
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โ€œYouโ€™re so ugly, you should do our eyes a favour and just dieโ€ ๐Ÿ”ช
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โ€œYouโ€™re a slut and a whore. You deserve it.โ€ ๐Ÿ‘ฟ
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โ€œYouโ€™re so stupid, itโ€™s no wonder nobody loves you.โ€ ๐Ÿคฃ
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It is not acceptable to humiliate or shame someone, and here are 3 reasons why:
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1๏ธโƒฃ. You donโ€™t know when you can completely break someone. Humiliating someone seems harmless to you - especially when youโ€™re not really doing it to their face - itโ€™s just typing a few words on the internet. ๐Ÿ˜ผ Thereโ€™s no real consequence to you that you can see or feel, but there may be a consequence to the person - they might be feeling so bad, or in such a state of depression, that all it took for them to give up on themselves, to give up their life, was reading your comment. ๐Ÿ˜“
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2๏ธโƒฃ. You have to ask yourself why it feels good when you humiliate someone. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธWe need to look in the mirror, and ask ourselves why we better about our own life when we make someone feel bad about theirs. ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿป What does not make sense is to embrace self-righteousness to the point where we delude ourselves into thinking that when we humiliate someone, itโ€™s because we have no choice. ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ โ€œYou forced me to say all those things, because your behaviour leaves me no choice but to say something mean.โ€ โ˜ ๏ธ Itโ€™s like in our heads, weโ€™ve justified it in so many ways. The question isn't whatโ€™s wrong with them, itโ€™s โ€œwhatโ€™s wrong with me?โ€ ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
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3๏ธโƒฃ. You are not correcting bad behaviour by humiliating someone. โœ–๏ธโœ–๏ธPeople may have put themselves in a situation or embody values and morals that completely goes against your own, and itโ€™s fine that you donโ€™t agree with them, but it never is okay to go up to someone and say something to them that completely tears them apart. Itโ€™s not okay to write it, type it, send it or say it. ๐Ÿ—ฃ๐Ÿ’ป๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿป If someone did that to us, we wouldnโ€™t think itโ€™s okay, so why would we feel itโ€™s okay for us to do it to other people? ๐Ÿ‘€
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We can only live our life to the fullest when we donโ€™t spend time or effort humiliating or shaming people, thatโ€™s true happiness and how we can be happy, always. โ™ฅ๏ธ
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You may look the same as everyone else, you may laugh the same, talk the same and act the same, but inside, you know youโ€™re not the same, because inside, itโ€™s a struggle, all the time and every time. ๐Ÿ˜ž
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When weโ€™re physically injured, everyone can see it, and most people will even have sympathy for it, like when we have a broken arm or leg. ๐Ÿค• But when weโ€™re mentally hurt, itโ€™s something that people cannot see, and because people cannot see it, itโ€™s so much harder to actually explain and justify, even to ourselves. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ
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No one thinks theyโ€™re not normal when they have a fever, but weโ€™ll ask ourselves if weโ€™re not normal to be feeling depressed. ๐Ÿ˜“ And we donโ€™t want to be not normal, so we can become quite good at acting normal. ๐Ÿ˜ So much so that there can be two versions of you - a version that everyone sees, and a version that only you see. ๐Ÿ‘
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But the truth is that there is only one us, and the other version - the happy, friendly, funny version - is us with a mask on. ๐ŸŽญ And the desperation comes when we want so badly to take it off yet we feel that we will crumble to ashes without it, and so we might feel that thereโ€™s only one real choice we can make, and thatโ€™s to end it. To stop living. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ
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And this is where you have to know that your depression is NOT your identity, that even as you feel consumed by it, that itโ€™s not you, itโ€™s a part of you. ๐Ÿƒ Being depressed isnโ€™t something to be ashamed of, itโ€™s not something that people can judge because theyโ€™re not in your head. โœ–๏ธ
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No matter how dark the days get, no matter how difficult it is to just get through another day, remember that itโ€™s not that youโ€™re weak, itโ€™s just that youโ€™re human, and human beings have to face and resolve many, many issues in life. ๐ŸŒช
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We have to find our own hope to live, and really focus on that hope. โœจ๐Ÿ’ซ We have to have hope for our happiness - even if they come in small bits and bursts - because happiness isnโ€™t something to aspire towards, itโ€™s something we can appreciate when it comes... and thatโ€™s what we need to remember on the days when itโ€™s difficult to be happy always. โ™ฅ๏ธ
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Click on link in bio to watch 'Living with Depression' ๐Ÿ”๐Ÿ’‹ #BHA #lovebonitomy #lbootd

We all make mistakes. Some of us have done things weโ€™re not proud of or regret. ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ
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Maybe we were young and foolish, maybe we were just foolish, but whichever the case, what we were does not matter as much as what we are right now. ๐Ÿ”ธ๐Ÿ”ป
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There are two main things about mistakes that make it so hard to get over, one of them is paying or suffering the consequences of our mistakes, and the other is the memory of the mistake. ๐Ÿ’ญ We cannot avoid consequences, and we cannot erase memory. โœ–๏ธ
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This makes mistakes painful, because even if we understand that mistakes are part of life, itโ€™s what happens after our mistakes that can keep haunting us. ๐Ÿ˜“
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Itโ€™s easier said than done to just forget about our mistakes and move on.๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธSo instead of just trying to forget about something in our past, we can move on by having more and more of other experiences that are different, other experiences that provide a CONTRAST to the unpleasant experience weโ€™ve had before. โ–ถ๏ธ
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Whatever mistakes weโ€™ve made in the past, we cannot run from it and we have to bear the consequences, but we can diminish the impact of those past experiences by creating new experiences that weโ€™re proud of. โœจโœจ Experiences that showcase who we are today, not who were in the past. ๐Ÿƒ
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Itโ€™s incredibly human to make mistakes, and itโ€™s especially human to go through the pain of mistakes. ๐Ÿ’†๐ŸปThe best thing about life though, is that the path ahead of us has yet to be charted, and walking that path is what being alive is all about. ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸŒ–
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We create our own experiences, and even the ones we regret are ones we can be grateful for, because they highlight what we want less of in life, so that we know to adjust and evolve to become the kind of person we want to be. ๐ŸŒž
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Donโ€™t try to forget your mistakes. Embrace them as part of who you were, and now move forward by being who you want to be, and learn how to be happy, always. โค๏ธ
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Click on link in bio to watch 'How To Move Past Regretful Mistakes' ๐Ÿ”๐Ÿ’‹#behappyalways #BHA #zaramy #strangersat47

How can you forgive someone who hurt someone you love, someone who hurt you or abused you, even someone who raped or murdered? ๐Ÿ˜“
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Letting go may seem too passive an act, too powerless in the face of something horrible or tragic. ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿป But letting go isn't about brushing an incident aside, it's not about dropping it or turning a blind eye. โœ–๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ We still need to solve the problem or address the situation because we can't just pretend something bad never happened.
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We mistake dropping something or trying to forget something that upsets us as 'letting go', because we feel like we've dealt with the situation, but we may not have let go yet; because every time we see the person, every time we think of the person, every time we hear their name, we feel a rush of negative emotions that upsets us. ๐Ÿ˜ 
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That's not letting go. ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ That's why even when criminals are put away, when people who hurt us suffer, we still cannot live our life freely and joyously. ๐Ÿ’ซ -
Letting go is letting go of an ill-feeling, of the emotional rise that disturbs us greatly. ๐Ÿƒ Letting go does not mean that we are powerless, it means we acknowledge how powerful we are. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป When we let go of the hold someone has over our emotions and our peace of mind, it is the most powerful and empowering act of all. ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿป
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There's a saying in mandarin, ๆ”พๅผ€ๅˆซไบบๆ˜ฏๆ”พ่ฟ‡ไน‹ๅญ. It means forgiving others is just being good to ourselves. ๐ŸŒž
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So solve the problem and address the situation, but let go of the emotional rise you get from it. If someone's taken something precious from you - don't let them take your life too. โ–ช๏ธโ–ซ๏ธLet go to take your life back and live your hours and days in a way where you can be happy, always. โ™ฅ๏ธ
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Click on the link in bio to watch "What Is Letting Go?" ๐Ÿ”๐Ÿ’‹ #behappyalways #BHA #lovebonitomy #lbootd

The world isn't perfect. ๐ŸŒŽ There's climate change and poverty and corruption. There's also bullying, racism and extreme disparity in the distribution of wealth and power.
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Good people die young, and people who treat others badly live a long life. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป Your boss can yell at you and bring you down yet be respected by society. Your spouse can abuse you yet be revered as a god-loving person. ๐Ÿ‘€
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Still, the question isn't "Why is life unfair?โ€ but rather "What am I going to do?" โ–ซ๏ธโ–ช๏ธ
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90% of our lives can be dictated by circumstances that aren't ideal, that are unfair or just plain cruel, which means that the only time things work out for us; when we get a lucky break or worry-free days, is when we get access to the balanced 10%. ๐Ÿ˜”
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Some people have it the other way round, where circumstances are most ideal 90% of the time, and unlucky and hard only 10% of the time. ๐Ÿ™‚ We might call these people blessed, because of the life they have. ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿผ
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But whether or not we are blessed isn't just determined by what shapes our life, it's how we shape our lifestyle. โ˜€๏ธโ˜€๏ธ And our lifestyle is linked to the day-to-day choices we make ; not in terms of things but in terms of our state of mind. โœจ
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This is why people say you can have everything yet nothing, or that you have nothing, yet everything, because how rich our life is is extremely linked to how blessed we feel, how grateful we are, and at every point in time, whether our mind chooses suffering, or chooses happiness. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ
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Whatever our situation may be or however the world is, the only variable is our mindset and attitude towards it, because that changes our actions and decisions. Otherwise it's just a slippery downhill slope, and it's wasting away the days. ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ Joy cannot be replaced. โœจ
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Circumstances affect us, but our REACTION to circumstances matters much more. ๐Ÿ’ซ People can try make us miserable, but they cannot force unhappiness upon us. ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿป So don't let people or the world dictate how happy you are. Your life is yours, so choose to be happy, always. โค๏ธ
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Love is the singular most powerful emotion on earth; and though some would say that of hate, it is love that motivates us to put other people before us. ๐Ÿ’–
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Think about it - it's a human instinct to survive, we're all naturally tuned to protect ourselves and our immediate family first, but when we fall in love with another human being, that human being started off being a complete stranger, and it's only because of love that we allow ourselves to be vulnerable with the person, that drives us to think of their needs, sometimes before our own needs. ๐Ÿ˜ฒ
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It's this same emotion, this love, that can lead us to do things that we wouldn't normally stand for or tolerate; like letting the person treat us badly, like forgiving and continuing loving someone who's hurt us over and over again. ๐Ÿ‘€ There are a multitude of reasons why we love someone, and sometimes these are reasons that nobody else can ever understand. Love can be extremely crazy, insane even... but it's never stupid, because love cannot be explained or justified. So there can never be foolish love, but there can be foolish decisions.
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We can love someone truly, madly, deeply, but if they mistreat, abuse or betray us, it is up to us to make decisions as to whether continue allowing them to treat us in this manner, or to take our love, and our dignity and our soul back. โœจ
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There's no right or wrong when it comes to love, only the reality of what is good or isn't good for us. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป The measure of a man isn't when he's happy and content, the measure of a man is when things get tough, when things get difficult. How a person behaves when things are not rosy is how we can gauge how true their love is. ๐Ÿ’ฏ
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Relationships aren't easy; so we just try our best. ๐ŸŒž And our best includes always remembering that the love we have for ourselves is ALWAYS as important as the strength of our love for our partner. ๐ŸŒˆ The quality of our life matters, not just what our heart feels. So here's to love, and to being happy, always. โค๏ธ
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Why do bad things happen to good people? I don't know. I wonder if anybody knows. ๐Ÿ˜•
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We meet the most wonderful kind and gentle people who have always contributed and given who are also patient and loving and they leave us all so quickly, so early. โฑ
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This leads me to wonder if death could be as much of a blessing as lifeand it's very difficult to not immediately say โ€œNo, of course not, it can't be!โ€. ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿป
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Death brings so much pain and sorrow not just for the departed but for those left behind.It's hard to continue living life with meaning when someone we love deeply is suddenly gone from this world. ๐Ÿ˜ข
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But I really do wonder if death isn't some sort of measure of life. Without death, wouldnโ€™t life be significantly less precious? โœจThe way we're built, we always appreciate things more when we don't have an infinite number of them and the same goes for our mortality. It's what defines humankind.
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Understanding all of this doesn't make it any easier when a life gets cut short, of a sickness, or an accident. What can bring us comfort is what we believe of life and death and why we exist in the first place. ๐ŸŒ”
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Nobody truly knows what happens after death. Is there still consciousness? Are we truly, and absolutely gone? I'd like to believe that we all exist for this brief period of time for a reason. Even if we live to a 100, itโ€™s still brief. ๐Ÿ’ซ
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So whatever time we have here on earth however many minutes and hours and days we haveโ€ฆ we have to make a conscious effort to remind ourselves to make the most out of our time here. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป
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I don't know why bad things happen to good people, but I do know that death happens to everyone. ๐ŸŒฟ We are all connected by life, right now despite race, despite religion, despite money and power and status, we are breathing the same air, weโ€™re all given the same privilege to be alive. So we can all be grateful and whilst we're living, we can choose to be happy, always. โค๏ธ
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