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Kristy Andersen  ☽ Intuitive Free Birthing Mama to Willow ♡ Wife to @earthy.ando ❁ Vegan ~ Be kind to animals & Mother Earth ☼ Manifesting Van Life ➵ Latest Vlog ➵

Sometimes it’s easy to get all caught up in the details. We’ve got big dreams and plans which means there’s a lot of in between to be done to make that happen. But the dreams can feel so far away when you’re constantly focusing on all of that stuff. Being with these guys is everything!! We had an awesome family week away that came at a perfect time when I needed less thinking and more living in the now. We got a lot of clarity & quality time together 🌞
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I’m wearing @zingaracollection

I think one of the best things I’ve ever done is give up my “suppose to” limitations. Doing anything I was “suppose to” do based on what others wanted or did never made me happy.
I have an excuse now to be a big kid and allowing myself to do that takes the pressure off being a parent and helps me be a better mum!

I’ve finally given myself the freedom to accept exactly what I like and don’t like and who I am and who I am not which is allowing me to attract my kind of people and live out my dreams.
Don’t take yourself too seriously we are still all big kids at heart. Forget about societies expectations. And don’t listen to anyone’s advice unless you would trade spots with them.

#worldbreastfeedingweek is always a good opportunity to share our favourite breastfeeding photos so that we can start the conversation and continue to normalise breastfeeding. We are paving the way for this to become the norm. Mums nourish their babies everyday!! And nothing speaks to our subconscious more than images. If we want to positively influence others we can’t stop here.
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A while ago now I made a decision within myself to never hold back from sharing a photo I love just because an old white man may not like it. When I hesitate to share a photo because some people might judge me, because I’m breastfeeding a toddler, it is clear to me that these are the most important choices, because it shows the barriers that we need to push through! Breastfeeding is worth celebrating and is not something that should be done in secret. Until that view is forgotten we have a problem!!
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By keeping on sharing the love through our photos we are helping to reshape the collective views that have been misconstrued through generations of reconditioning!!

Motherhood has rattled the me that I thought I was, until all my old layers fell away! Now I see the true strength and beauty in myself and the world. Life is so incredible!!
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In doing the hardest thing I ever did, it awakened me. Birthing in my own power I became aware of the strength that I have and the power that my daughter has within her.
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Motherhood has brought up everything I had suppressed in my lifetime, it has taken so much awareness and emotional energy for me to allow it all to bubble up again, feel it and finally let it go to set myself free. Not only have I discovered the bliss of living free of old pain but I am healing for my ancestors before me and healing for my daughter so that she will not have to carry our collective pain ever again. So that she can live her life out to her fullest potential, her fullest power and most importantly her most enlightened, loving, wonderful self!!
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She’s already practising being a big sister all on her own terms and she’s doing just amazing! I’m such a proud mama!!!

Usually the things that mean the most to me are the hardest to put into words incase I don’t express it right or do it injustice. Seeing the two most important people to me sharing precious moments like these are everything to me.
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Every single moment I catch these two together gives me the greatest joy! I didnt see my dad much as a little girl and deep down I worried about this being the same for my children in the future. This man is the standard against which Willow will judge men, she has true love demonstrated to her everyday and this makes my heart so happy. .
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Even if @earthy.ando has worked all day after a big morning run he will come home and be happy to take us straight to the beach to watch the sunset together!

Be Who You Needed When You Were Young 🙏

Precious are these moments! Growing fewer and further between. Perhaps even more necessary, more needed when they happen. There’s big feelings, big emotions, big things happening inside this tiny being. It can be overwhelming how important my job is when I think about it all, how fast she is growing, so I stop. I soak in the sun that’s beaming on our skin, I soak up the love I have for this little human and the love that she has for me. No one has ever needed me or loved me more. You can’t get any greater than that! Don’t miss out on another moment, gratitude is everything!

I find myself thinking about perspective often.
Sometimes things go “wrong,” until it turns out to be the greatest thing that could have happened. So when something isn’t going my way, I try to look at it from a different angle and accept things as they come. There’s always endless possibilities to were something could lead you. Try to see the good in every situation. It’s all about your perspective!! .
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Wearing @indigoluna_yogaswim 💫

She shows us how to live life, how to love without limits and to show gratitude for the tiniest moments. Children are born with courageous spirit & fire in their hearts! Even when ours is lost we should never dull their shine. Our children are the greatest gift and can show us what we are lacking and how to get it back all we have to do is to be present and observe! 🌝 I’m so unbelievably in love with this kid 🌸

“When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for any one who can grasp it.” ~ Rumi
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Wearing @indigoluna_yogaswim

It’s easy for fear to come bubbling up when you are ridiculously happy or have someone to protect because suddenly you feel like you have everything to loose. But worrying about things we can’t control and focusing on all the possibly bad outcomes is insanity!! What gives me peace of mind is knowing that what you put out into the universe you will get back because that is something that we do have control of. Focus on the things you want to attract more of and do everything with good intentions. Start by giving love to the people that you love. When bringing others joy you can’t be sad because you’re not thinking about yourself any longer. When you find yourself worrying bring yourself right back to the present moment. Those beams of love are coming your way!!
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Wearing sustainable goodness by @indigoluna_yogaswim 🌞

Willow has been one month nappy free day and night! A while back I talked about feeling challenged with Willow rejecting clothes in the middle of winter... Once I let go of my limiting thoughts I no longer felt any need to control and was able to trust my daughter like usual. She knew that she was ready we just had to listen. Of course we’ve been listening to her by following along with #eliminationcommunication so she already often used the potty with our help. We will always respect our daughter’s body autonomy and so when she rejected nappies for outings we had no choice. This was Willow’s way of saying I’m done with nappies for good!!! I am so fricken proud of my bad ass little girl she did this potty training all by herself! 🙌

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