I'm a mom... I've had too many kids... my pregnancies have destroyed my body, I'll never get it back.
I hear this often and went many years thinking the same thing! Well guess what! I've had 3 children and tho my body isn't perfect it's better than it ever was before the first pregnancy! Do I have stretch marks and some lose skin? Yes and it doesn't bother me a bit! That's part of life!
There's no magic pill! No coach, trainer, or any fitness guru that has some secret you can pay for! THERE IS NO SECERT!!! The key is consistency! Sticking to a plan! Trusting the process! It's not going to happen over night, in a week, maybe not even a year! All you have to do is take baby steps in the right direction and NOT give up too soon! Believe in yourself!