If you are young and vibrant and interesting and filled with dreams and ambition, why are you in a relationship where you're banging your head against the wall trying to make it work? Why are you gonna waste a single day on a relationship that's filled with fissures, lack of trust, and a slow decline of increasingly common breakups? Don't settle for complacency and don't settle with your fear of being alone, get out and upgrade. Do what you want. You get one attempt. Why would you sell out your freedom for fear?