Sooo I have a question that I was thinking about as I drove into work in the rain one my absolute favorite things to do drive on the freeway in the rain when no one is out there, especially the harder the better with really good music and a well maintained car of course😊
What gender do you think us more emotional, men or women?
In my experience guys are more hot and cold even the nice one's than women.
For instance, a guy will give you a compliment and say something like you have a pretty face or a nice smile and then in the same breath criticize the same thing that he claims attracted you to him. The nicer guys will be slick about though. I like your outfit. Yeah you look real healthy. Did you iron that or did you put that in the dryer? Oh you did iron it good...yeah because if you put it in the dryer only leave it in there 10 minutes, so they don't get any tighter. You've been doing your squats obviously because that a@# is like pow bang. And you're just going along like Thanks! I think. And the bad boys will just say something subtle but get to the point. Did you eat today? What did you eat? Cool. So you're not hungry right now cause you almost didn't fit in the car with that a@#? Girls either laugh say thank you get self conscious or upset but all along thinking like I thought he said that is what he liked...so I'm confused!
But regardless if you take it as a compliment or a critique over time this behavior wears you down...and the next thing you know your sprinting up the hill at Griffith Park every day at 3pm trying to get it until he says dang girl I appreciate your commitment, you look real good, but can I ask you something who you trying to impress?!!
Dang you cant win for losing?
Why do guys do this? Compliment then critique.
...and they wonder why women are laughing then crying then laughing again.
This is my experience.
Am I too sensitive?
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