Hi dear all 🤗 It has been a while since I wanted to discuss an interesting topic - family/friends and money.
We all must have been in a situation where we were asked to lend some money. In my bitter experiences, I have lost both friendship and money. In fact that made me a doubt if there was any friendship at all. The situation is even worse when a family member is involved.
Unfortunately, majority people do not feel the need to return the money, and you end up in an uncomfortable situation where you have to keep asking for something which is actually yours. After some time it starts to irritate you, and the other person might as well start avoiding you and/or stop a contact.
What upsets the most is not even the money, but they way a close person treats you, especially when you see them having a perfectly normal life, not putting any efforts to save the relationship.
So what can be done in such situations? I think that the best option would be help the person by giving an amount of money that you are able to give and forget. Not more than that.
Have you ever been in this position? How did the story end?
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