Lie: God allowed something bad to happen to teach or change you
Truth: God is a good God and desires you live your life abundantly
One and/or 2 things brought the bad. 1)Unwise decisions we make bring bad things upon us 2)the enemy attacks us causing a bad thing.
Neither of those involve God bringing us into a bad situation. The devil is the one who steals, kills, and destroys. Anything bad is of the devil and NOT of God. Saying that God is in control and/or if God brings me to it, He brings me through it is a misrepresentation of God. God doesn't bring you to evil. God brings you to good. Every time and always.
The same Spirit that rose Christ from the dead wants to live and work through you. In the name of Jesus and through the Holy Spirit we have what is needed to destroy every act of the enemy... every act of evil. DO NOT accept evil saying "God knows all". God didn't send evil to you so don't live in it. Repent, be cleansed, be saved, be filled with Holy Spirit and start defeating the enemy coming against your life in the name of Jesus. Jesus came to give you a life of rest (Hebrews 4) so why accept living a life of anxiety?
God is a good God. It's time to stop blaming God for the bad and time to take responsibility for our actions, either by decisions or by allowing the enemy to trample on our lives. God's got nothing but good things for you. Time to take back what the enemy stole from you. Go take it back because the devil has no intention of returning it. It must be taken by force and you have the authority in the name of Jesus and through Holy Spirit to take it back.
Repent and cloth yourself in Christ so that you can live out God's promises in your life. I can guarantee they are all amazing promises He desires for you.