Probably the biggest form of gaslighting I can think of. Psychological ownership. I hear what white liberals say when there isn't any non whites in the room, it isn't good. I was always raised to believe that the evil conservatives were the racists and sexist pigs. That couldn't have been more wrong. Although conservatives have some issues to work on, like blindly following govt officials, military policy and police, I'll side with you guys on the rest.