"If wishes were horses, beggars will ride"
You can't just sit around and wish to be like some fabulous trail blazing Christian fashion designer, makeup artist, tourist, chef, baker, speaker...and expect "the lines to fall for you in pleasant places". That'll be dream dreaming.
Sis, until you take that flight, the sky will never be your limit. Talk less about it being your starting point. All of these isn't pessimism. We're telling the UNDILUTED TRUTH.
Sis, you had better wake up to reality. To blaze the trail in your field, amongst others, INITIATIVE AND DILIGENCE are obligatory, not optional.
Sis, you can go beyond the skies but first, you have to take that flight.
"Hard workers will become leaders [be in charge], but those who are lazy will be slaves [put to forced labor]." - Proverbs 12:24 (EXB)