... We have bodies, stronger than they might seem, we have claws, teeth & filters, like intuition & clear mind.
I believe, that relating sexually, without the desire to, can cause more harm, than good. It costs us more than their moment pleasure. It costs us confidence & can bring numbness & other illnesses to our bodies.
Rape is a consequence of a confused psyche. I know, it’s not always about how malicious the person is, but rather that their act is a result of insensitivity & ignorance.
Now we have internet & there are so many resources on the policy of consent. Today I read an amazing article, that is written by a man for other men about the suggestion on how to have sex, so nobody regrets in the end. Bravo, Daniel Schmachtenberger! I wish you wrote the text book, that teachers would use in schools.
The way we speak up on social media matters. If this can become normal, it can give to strength to people, who are frightened for their lives &/or are in extremely difficult situations to show up and get the attention they need.
Sexuality becomes sacred, when you start treating the other with full respect. If the layers of perspective deepens, another person can become more than an object and lust might lose a grip, when that grip is absolutely unnecessary. Because.. we all can use that life force (aka sex drive) to upgrade our lives & become superhumans instead of going on a whim and causing harm. This is serious science right there: kundalini, tantra, vedas etc.👌🏻 I know we got this, humans. At least I’d like to think that there is growth & evolution along that other sh*t.
I know I want to forgive the harm done to me, but I won’t forget. The knowledge can become a key to unlock deeper healing, understanding of self & the world. —> This story is for #metoo & it starts a few posts up with #mybody. This is a massive social share around sexual violation.
It takes lots of courage to be able to speak about it so openly. Please share these posts if you think they might help someone.
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