Abuse of any kind is intolerable. My Mom warned me my day was comin. I was 2 cocky 2 take heed. My 1st relationship, I initiated the abuse. He stayed cool. I felt validated in my behavior. I apologized yrs later but he ain't on dat
2nd relationship, that shit ain't fly. My mouth inspired an otherwise peaceful man 2 have several violent encounters over the yrs. He walk up on me, I walk up on him. Horrible idea cuz he's bigger than me.
Biggest secret many prolly won't believe. Whoever knows him knows he's dependable, teddy bear nature. He always walks away. He's never done this b4. Did I deserve it?... On his behalf, he is dealin w/a lot. Life has been throwin him lemons non stop for 3 yrs non stop now. Wife/marriage, family, career, he got a lot on his plate.
He can't handle my mouth. It feels like he tryna whoop me doe... The psychology of abuse is intense. Is he doin what my Momma couldn't?
They say namin an abusers good characteristics makes u an enabler. I just think it's fair 2 see all parties r humans.
Dudes, don't put ur hands on a woman. Many of u don't touch ur kids. How u gone touch another adult?
U get weak n go there anyway, admit ur wrong doin. Don't pretend like it's the girl's fault. Violence is never ok & men r stronger & usually bigger than women. We gotta learn how 2 communicate better, cuz I'll call him a bitch in a hot second.
I encourage couples 2 meditate when things get thicke. Fellas, sometimes y'all gotta take the lead if u see a convo is goin south.
If u kno him, talk 2 him. There's pain all thru him 2. Very few notice. He don't talk much. And he's a Virgo. They're fuq'n perfect. And fake @ times. I have 5 Virgos in my immediate family. I specialize in Virgo behavior. They make sure every1 else is cool. They break down in the corner. They can live their whole life like this if they love u. But if u push them 2 far, they gone check yo ass. They internalize everything. Very critical. Super perfectionist minded & very pig headed cuz they're so logical
This is the public image. I'm talkin bout the private pain. Who gone speak up? A whole family @ stake... #ElectricLady #TwerkNTone #TeamAlchemy