My 'relationship' is COMPLICATED, it use to be clear cut,then it went to total zero and now complicated,but you know the funniest is even with all the complications right now,it's totally beautiful, and I love it.
But today's not the time to discuss all of that... I have been doing a lot of thinking lately. From what being special to someone means, to vulnerability, to love making, to being in a relationship but not loved, to being loved but not particularly dating the person, to goals, ambitions, marriage, letting yourself go, living your life without approval of anyone or fear of disapproval, to what being naked is.
I have made a 360° cycle of thoughts in the past few months, then I came to this conclusion (image above). It takes more than pulling your clothes off to be naked, it takes more than saying you love to actually love. You can't LOVE without trusting,and you can't TRUST and not be NAKED (VULNERABLE; above image explanation). So the next time,you are using the phrase "I love you", think deeply on it. And please note,all I have said above includes but not limited to only persons you are romantically involved with!
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PS: I was looking for how to put my thoughts into words,then I remembered a quote I saw some time bck, I went to look for it, tweaked it here and there and that birth the above image.