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I wouldnt recommend you volunteer this type of information. Thats where, I agree, that youd be trying to ease your own guilt. But if youre confronted about the cheating dont lie, because now you're robbing that person (you cheated on) the opportunity to decide whats best for them. #LetsTalk If you cheated on your partner, would you EVER tell them the truth? Would you want your partner to tell you if they cheated on you? TAG A FRIEND!! relationshipadvice #abstinance #sex #commitment #healthyRelationships #relationshipstatus #relationships #toxicrelationships #relationship101 #blackrelationships #Love #Couples #Frienships #Husband #LatoyaChimaine #marriage #tagafriend # #turnonpostnotification

Today's message is "Shallow Grave" from the Oracle of Shadows & Light.
"You miss someone"
What I'm getting with this card is that you may be feeling nostalgic and reminiscing the past.
Emotions may be coming to surface at this time.
You feel stuck in time...both these figures are in the grave.
What is clear is that this girl is tied to a skeleton of the past. The butterflies around her signify transformation and changes.
There are many things changing around and within you yet you feel tied to the past.
I also feel that this relationship is imbalanced in some ways. One may be giving more leaving the other depleted...the skeleton has nothing to offer and is probably just feeding off her energy...there could be codependency here as well.
It is ok to mourn what was. Know that this experience has been of great value on your life's journey.
It's time to mend your heart and heal those emotions which are calling for your attention.
You are undergoing transformation. The emotions that you are feeling are coming to surface for healing. Allow them to flow without judgement and heal.
#oracleofshadowsandlight #toxicrelationships #narcissist #healing #codependency #transformation #relationships #tarotreadersofinstagram #oracle #love #light #dianafaroogh

Pretty stoked to be a part of the youth council and have my first training with #loveisrespect next month! Love is not abusive, manipulative, or disrespectful. Know your worth! #intimatepartnerviolence #domesticviolence #toxicrelationships #loveisforeveryone

today I tried to talk about my sexual traumas to a professional and realized that I have truly blocked those memories from my conscious mind and can no longer remember them

When is it time to end the #friendship ?
Some assessment questions I go through before hitting delete/unfollow:
- Is this relationship reciprocal? (give/take)
- do i feel better/worse when i LEAVE them
- is the effort worth the outcome?
- is all you had (history) all you HAVE?
- do actions express interest or am i being taken for granted? again...

"Friendship is something you DO"
#personaldevelopment
#butilovememore
#toxicrelationships
#loyalty
#platonic
#friendswiththebenefitofbeingfriends

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***check out: elevationtrainingtech.com/blog for article*** Did a written blog article on the toxic stages of narcissistic courtship. Read & share. The post discusses the origins of narcissistic personality disorder + red flags to be aware of, master / slave dynamics & recovery from narcissistic abuse. "When you dance with the devil, the devil doesn't change. The devil changes you." - Amanda Hocking #Narcissism #Relationships #ToxicPeople #Healing #MentalHealth #Emotionalabuse #codependency #selfempowerment #Cptsd #ptsd #purpose #cptsdrecovery #emotionalhealth #socialhealth #narcissist #toxicshame #toxicrelationships #Relationships #relationshipdynamics #socialdynamics #social #health #healing

Good morning! --
I'm on the East coast this morning taking my am stroll. 塔鋁his thought popped into my mind while I was walking... -
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You hear a lot of people talk about toxic relationships but how do you know you have one? Well, here's my Yasmin Shiraz guide to toxic relationships:
1. If you always feel bad after talking to a person, they are toxic.
2. If you feel bad after hanging around a person, they are toxic.
3. If the person makes you question your worth, self-esteem, or value, they are toxic.

4. If a person is constantly tearing you down, they are toxic.
5. If you are around a person and you don't feel a shred of joy, happiness or love, they are toxic. -
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Toxic people hate to be by themselves because they are a bunch of misery loving motherfuckers. 浮ut here's the thing: kick them to the curb anyway. 荊
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I want everyone reading this message to live a happy life and to find your joy. It hard to find joy when toxic is blocking your path. Love ya'll!
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Pick your partner based on PERSONALITY they say..........hmmmmmmm I think we need to look deeper. Past the good looks and charming personality. What really matters is CHARACTER. When people show you who they are. BELIEVE THEM.
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It is often said and rightly so that a victim of domestic abuse is most at risk when her departure becomes a reality for her abuser. The risk of violence escalates. But so, too, does the risk of massive emotional and psychological manipulation. [Blog Post] http://bit.ly/2vauTFV #healing #recovery #abusesurvivor #emotionalabuse #toxic #toxicrelationships #stopabuse #abuseawareness #abusiverelationships #relationships #narcissisticabuse #manipulation #emotionallyabusiverelationship

When is it time to end the #friendship ?
Some assessment questions I go through before hitting delete/unfollow:
- Is this relationship reciprocal? (give/take)
- do i feel better/worse when i LEAVE them
- is the effort worth the outcome?
- is all you had (history) all you HAVE?
- do actions express interest or am i being taken for granted? again...

"Friendship is something you DO"
#personaldevelopment
#butilovememore
#toxicrelationships
#loyalty
#platonic
#friendswiththebenefitofbeingfriends

Bam. All four.
I don't like that my exes abuse would have turned me into this... but things still fade. But some of the expectations about behaviors of partners throughout life will replicate those awful feeling from when you were being abused. You expect anything bad to be like it was. Explosive. Thinking they'll kick you out or break up with you again. Ditch all that. We usually we get understanding when we've found the right partner. Don't stop trying to find a healthy love. It's out there. Hiding, waiting... you'll find yourself in perfection some day and it will probably be a surprise.
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#mentalabuse #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #abusesurvivor #womensshelter #restrainingorder #domesticabuse #womensresources #mensrrsources #menareabusedtoo #doyoureallycare #abuse #batteredwomen #warriors #survivor #life #victim #relationships #love #toxicrelationships

I cried so many tears over people who were not meant for me, never realising until too late that they were in fact bullets dodged that should have been celebrated. Now I want to thank them for the hurt; they made me stronger, better and more ready for the real person that deserves me and my time. #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #epiphany #selfworth #thankyou

Learn to walk away when the relationship has served its purpose. Don't allow yourself to remain in a toxic environment out of loyalty because once the love and respect no longer exists, you have to be willing to make the decision to move on. #toxicrelationships #moveon #valueyourself #trustheprocess #liveyourlife #behappy 歹歹

my heart pumps like dis guy some days

I will never escape the last 3 years, it's part of me, and I'll never be the girl I was back then ever again either. I'm still trying to figure out who this new me is, but I do know exactly what I never want to feel ever again. #everydaygetseasier .
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#healing #knowingyourpurpose #findingmyself #strength #lovingthenewme #compassion #empathy #selfworth #toxicrelationships #onedayatatime #ptsd #babysteps #newmewhodis #notsorry #somedayssuck #mostdaysaregood #neverforget #forgiveness #ifyoudontlovemesomebodyelsewill #integrity #bestversionofme

I shared this image about a year ago and I'm sharing it again now.
It makes people uncomfortable, and those people can keep scrolling.
But as long as it gets you thinking and talking, that's what matters. Those of you who take time to read these words, thank you.
PHYSICAL ABUSE is NOT the only type of abuse. There are so many levels and forms of abuse, and so many people are afraid to talk about it.
Don't be afraid to educate yourself, your families, your friends.
Turning a blind eye to wrongdoings just because it makes you uncomfortable, is almost as bad as the abuse itself.
Like witnessing a fellow student be bullied and doing nothing to help them.
Social media isn't just here for us to post about how fake we are and how much we love make up and fashion and food and going to the gym. It's nice to open up Instagram and see glamour and shiny things and happy stories, but it's also nice to see and spread TRUTH.
No one is perfect and no one is always happy and there is a lot of darkness and pain in the world. If we pretend it isn't happening, it doesn't make it go away.
Sometimes it's nice to be a voice for people who cannot find their own. It's rewarding to know you have touched someone by stepping outside of your comfort zone, by attempting to bring awareness to the topics that are so stigmatized.
Talk about it. I dare you to.
#MentalHealth #Awareness #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalAbuse #MentalAbuse #SexualAbuse #FinancialAbuse #PhysicalAbuse #EndSilence #Truth

This little lesson hit home hard today. You never know what is in store... #healing #emotionalabuse #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #gaslighting #manipulation #mentalhealth

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