Always remember the way people see you is through their lens and filters. You can't control how other people will perceive your energy regardless of how much you try. Just like yourself, when you're going through a hard time, your lens get jaded and you start to see things as well as people in negative lights. They aren't necessarily negative but it is a reflection of what is going on in our life at the moment. With this being said, don't put energy into your reputation but your character. Your character are truths and who you are. Your reputation are opinions and people's perception of you based on themselves.
Before you judge someone or something today, I challenge you to reflect on yourself and your mindset - your character. This will reveal alot about yourself and become a learning experience. "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." See the light and positivity in people and your day. You chose your reality and who you are, not others.