That grown woman look 😊 This pic is from 2014? @dshatha took it, not 100% sure about the date. This was when I realized that even though by “many people’s” standards I was “a-okay” #thickthighs #savelives #thickwomen #bigbootygirls #thickandfit #superfine ...
I wasn’t feeling it. Didn’t like the way the weight felt on my body. Stopping the show fully dressed is cool. A confident woman can carry any weight and do it well, but that’s not what I wanted. This was the first time I was heavy... not due to pregnancy or illness, but simply because my diet was rich and I had little physical activity. I think I was +-155 lbs, but it wasn’t the weight. It was the fat. I wish I would have been more diligent about keeping track of what I weighed etc, but what I do know is that in January of 2015 I was at 32% body fat. So we can easily surmise 1/3 of my weight was fat in this picture. 😳 #thatscrazy ...
Anyway... my single opinion will forever outweigh “many people’s” opinions, therefore, I kept making changes. Yes, I knew that men love curves. Yes, I knew I was inline with the typical 40-something year old women’s body... but who the fuck wants to be typical? .
What I am saying and it may be cliche’ but define your body by your own standards. Define your life by your own standards. Bump what “many people” are doing. #getyousome #doyou #totalrebuild #flashbackfriday #fbf