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Somebody is turning 10 in 7 days☺☺☺ she so hype! #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

Us trying to record her video invitation for her party 😂😂😂😂 it took 42 videos before we got it right😂😂😂 #TheBig10 #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

Working on bettering my self one day at a time! #thesecretbehindthestep

The love of my life☺️☺️☺️ #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP (📸 @mamaphotog_ )

#thesecretbehindthestep #RealMom #NoTitlesNeeded #Rare #TheTruth please check out my wife's blog it's a true look inside parenting, all the ups and downs! Her honest opinion. A topic that most don't discuss. I'm so proud of this woman god gave to me. My whole entire support system! @sherellenichole I love you so much and I am so proud of you for stepping out sharing this story with the world! Link in her bio!

Holiday vacation is over! Back to work! Almost done planning my whole 1st quarter for 2017 #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #JUMP #2017

Head over to @sherellenichole to enter for a chance to win! There's a little something for #stepmoms and #biomoms! ❤️💕 #blendedfamily #thesecretbehindthestep #dopestepmom 😎

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I'm really starting to miss my babies😩it's only been 11 days with out them.. I'm sure I'll get over this feeling soon 😂 I know I been MIA with posting on Social media but I've been so focus!! Im doing so good sticking to my plan while they are gone! I have so many goals I MUST ACCOMPLISH before they return. Wish me luck! #thesecretbehindthestep #thesecretbehindthestep #TheSecretbehindSTEP #stepparent #stepparenting #stepdaughter #stepson #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #coparenting #coparentingatitsfinest #parenting #parentingblogger #parentingblog #parents #bonusmom #momlife #blogger #stepparentingblogger #browngirlbloggers #christmas #bekind #love #children #stepchild #thesecretbehindthestep #thesecretbehindthestep

Oh hey August! Yes! Yes! Yes! Finally it's my FREE MONTH! My 2 youngest are gone🙌🏽🙌🏽 and the oldest is always MIA so It's just me and my boo😊 Now it's me TIME! Im so excited for vacation, date nights, and one on one time with my HUBBY! All month😜! I can do whatever I want! It doesn't even seem real 😭😭😭 well I hope you guys have a great month! BECAUSE I WILL!!!!!!!! (I know this month is going to go so fast 🤦🏽‍♀️) #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #thesecretbehindthestep #TheSecretbehindSTEP #stepparent #stepparenting #stepdaughter #stepson #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #coparenting #coparentingatitsfinest #parenting #parentingblogger #parentingblog #parents #bonusmom #momlife #blogger #stepparentingblogger #browngirlbloggers #christmas #bekind #love #children #stepchild #thesecretbehindthestep

This picture really explains so much 😂

Me: always tryna fix things to be perfect
Toya: always picking with chris
Chris: always playing around
Mir: just don't want to be bothered
Shon: let's do this so we can get it over with!
MEET THE AVERY'S 🤷🏽‍♀️
#TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

My #MCM I really married my bestfriend ☺️ we have our ups and downs but the love we have out weighs any test! We balance each other out, we're the perfect match! Who would have thought when we were sitting in class in the 11th grade laughing and playing everyday that he would be the man I would spend the rest of my life with 🤷🏽‍♀️😉😊 #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #stepparent #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

New Blog post ALERT 🚨
So, I'm starting a new storytelling series for the blog. Each month I'll post a storytelling blog about the ups and downs and challenges you deal with as a step parent. Now brace yourself because these stories are Real and they give you a true feel of some things you may experience. So this is a way for us to talk about real life issues, the good and the bad. Hope you guys enjoy this!! Blog will be posted tomorrow 😬 #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #stepparent #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

At one point in my life I wrapped myself into my children. I'm slowly but surely finding me again 😊it's ok to put your all into your children but don't lose yourself, you have to put yourself 1st! That's the only way you can give anyone your best you! #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

She looks so sweet😊😒 well yesterday this sweet little girl gave me a run for my money 😂 stepparenting has it's tough days like any other relationship... she had an attitude yesterday and gave me the silent treatment all morning😩 and the fact that I was not feeding into her and continued having a good day dancing to my music on the way to drop her off at camp pissed her off even more 😭 I had to let her know that you choose to have a bad day and just because that's the choice you made don't mean I have to have a bad day too😉 I'm going to choose to have a great day! So she got out the car to get on the camp bus (with a attitude) and I yelled bye Toya! I LOVE YOU! Have a GREAT DAY😭🤷🏽‍♀️the JOYS of being a stepmom #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #freetime #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

Summer summer summer time😊Well summer has officially started and I'm so happy that my kids whole summer is planned!!!!! They have a very very busy summer! I'm super excited because they will be travel with their grandparents, so cheers to me and my summer break without them 🥂 Im going to be out here doing all kinds of activities 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #freetime #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

This is oh so true! A lot times ppl carry drama all by themselves, the other party prob have no idea this drama even exist. Ppl create things in their head than run with it and swear they have haters 😳 nobody cares!!! Relax! Let it go! Your mad alone! 😭😭😭😭 let's make this a drama free week!!! Be happy☺️ "A positive mindset leads to positive actions and a negative mindset leads to negative actions" #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

Building a bond one day at a time😊 I never knew I would be able to build a bond like this with a child I didn't birth. We have our hard days like any other mother and daughter but our loves also runs so deep! I will always be there for her. And if anything happened between me and my husband(God forbid) she's probably coming with me😂 having a blended family is not all bad! It's actually been one of the best things that has happened to me☺️ #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSercretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

Hey guy!!!! Head over to www.thesecretbehindthestep.com (link in my bio) and check out my latest blog "How to deal with reject from your step child" and while your there check out "Baby mama drama" and our live Q&A videos!! You won't be disappointed. #TheSercretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

I am who I am! And I'm ok with that😉••As a stepmom sometimes you may struggle with trying to find your place. You being the new member to a family you may find yourself trying really hard to gain acceptance. The struggle then becomes staying true to your own self. It's so easy to start people pleasing in the midst of wanting to be accepted. Head over to #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP to check out my blog titled "Finding my way" for more info on this topic😊. #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

As a stepmom you have to build a relationship with your stepchild(ren) that no one can tear apart. Especially if your heart is pure and you have good intentions. Your there to assist your mate in raising their child(ren). This process will not be easy but No matter what anyone can/will ever say, they will know that You love them and always will! It wasn't easy building the bond I have with my step kids but we made it work🤗Recently I had a convo with a new stepmom who says her step daughter is being brainwashed by her bio mom to not like her🙁doing things like this will only hurt your child. A lot of blended families deal with brainwashed children. Sometimes it's court related or the mother or father is afraid of the child building a tight relationship with the step parent. My new blog talks strictly about these situation and somethings I learned dealing with a brainwashed child! Stay tuned to #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP new blog be posted this weekend😉#TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP #DOPEMOM #DOPESTEPMOM #wifelife #truelove #bond #momlife #mommydaughter #rolemodel #wifelife #stepparents #stepmom #stepmother #stepdaughter #stepson #coparenting #coparent #parenting #parentingblogger #parent #parentingblog #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blogger #bloggerlife #browngirlbloggers #bonusmom #bonusmommy #TheSecretbehindtheSTEP

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