One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than necessary, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters- whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past, the moments of life that have finished.
Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts- and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them.
Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose.
Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood.
Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.
Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no staring date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the "ideal moment". Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.
Remember that there was a time that you could live without that thing, or that person- nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need.
This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important! Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life.
Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.
Stop being who you were, and change into who you are. -Paulo Coelho
This is the beginning of A N Y T H I N G you want!
Happy Happy New Year! xo