SEX. The sound of melting. 🤐 In conventional sex we are all about the thrusting, the active motion of ‘doing’, the heat built up and expended, the erections, the orgasms, the WAM BAM, the fantasy, the penetration, the fast pace, the deep. 😲
Sometimes fucking can be great...as long as you stay conscious in your body and partner throughout. It can be a real turn on. 😏
The problem is, this type of sexual isn’t typically as long lasting and can lead to quicker boredom in a couple because of soooo much energy expenditure OUTward.
I challenge you to expand your idea of sex and look into trying on getting melted.
And when I say this I mean get into JUST the feeling sensation; consciousness in your fingertips/palm/heel/back of your hand; deep breathing, eye contact, relaxing your PC muscles, getting soft on, stopping at times and stillness while inside, coolness, full mindfulness of your own pleasure. 🤯
Take the pressure off yourself. Your pleasure potential lies in letting the f* go and dropping into deeper layers of relaxation.
Too tired for sex? Maybe for the conventional type, but, lover, you DO have enough energy to give/receive pleasure in a non-doing way. Moving energy and turning on the body just through touch and sensation. You just didn’t realize that was sex too. 🤭
Day 2 of Tantra training with Charles Muir 🤩
Coming back to the basics is reminding me I don’t have to get crazy with my practice. It’s all in the subtleties.
And you all can do it.
Let’s expand our pleasure palette, shall we?
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