Not everyone's going to get me, and I get that 👌🏼😁❤️
We say the world is a beautiful place because everyone's so different but then somehow get annoyed when someone doesn't see the world through the same window. .
Everyone's value is made up of what they personally value most. .
So to expect everyone to see our value is a hugely unfair expectation as what they value is made up of what they value most too. .
Waiting or wanting to be understood by everyone is never going to happen. EVER!!!!! Nor should it. .
No one is needing to validate themselves to anyone. .
We were born validated. .
When has anyone said to a baby "prove your worth to me baby, show me why I should love you" (unless of course you're an arsehole) .
NEVER! So at what point does that change? .
Our worth is not something that is needed to be proven, it's always been there but falling out of alignment into someone else's values will always cause the need for validation or approval. .
That's such a heavy weight. .
True alignment to yourself never needs explaining or defending. .
If you can't see my worth as a human that just shows me we don't value the same things. .
And that's completely fine. .
I'm not going to try have anyone see it. .
Would a bird get annoyed at a fish for not seeing the value in being able to fly? .
The second I require someone else to know my worth I've forgotten it myself. .
Everyone just needs to show up as themselves each day so the ones that do value you, find you easier, and you can progress with much greater ease and alignment to what's most important to you and your tribe. #areyoumykindofBF?