Learning to love yourself can be one of the hardest things to do in the world. We are taught by society that we are too fat, too thin, too tall, too short, too ugly, too pretty, boobs are too big, boobs are too small etc. I am sure you get what I am getting at.
At no time growing up do I remember being told you are perfect the way you are. Love yourself first. Don't let other people's judgements of you reflect onto you as they are merely their own insecurities that they are transferring tonyou because they don't know how to deal with them.
As a mom of a funny, kind, loving, high energy, caring, giving, creative young girl I am set to let her know that the most important love is self love.