I always talk about self-love.Its important for ur healing n survival..but today when I was thinking about self-love ,there was a thing that clicked my mind.
In road to self-love , we should always think, Is self-loving ,self-loving for us or if its turning us into self-centred and a selfish person who cares nothing but his own happiness.
so, for once please check yourselves.Sometimes u are a toxic person for others..In your journey towards ur healing, u start hurting people.
You had bad experiences with people,u were judged, I can understand, but there is no excuse to do the same with others just because u were the victim of it.Hey, its not justified.
We are so much absorbed in thinking our problems,hardships and myseries that we become so bitter for the person we are dealing with and we have no idea of this.
If we could look into eachother's heart , we would see we r not the only one suffering.If we could understand the unique challenges every one of us is facing,we would stop complaining ours.we would learn to treat others more gently and with more love.
Of course, U don't want to be the reason, some one's feeling get hurt,but u still act in a way that might cause others pain.
However there is always room to become a better person.Apologize the person with whom u ever hurt.Its the true growth, understanding that there are things u need to work on.
Don't worry about others people's opinion of you. You were not created to inspire them, you were created to love them.Be so busy in loving life, loving God, loving others and loving yourself that u have no time for regrets,worries and fears..This is the true art of self-healing.#selfhealing#lovingothers#instadaily#instagood#stophurting#stopjudging#don'tjudge#checkyourself#loveeachday#nomorebitterness#letitgo#don'tstress#stayinyourmagic#youaremagic#followyoursoul#muslimahblogger#hijabiblogger#pakistaniblogger#iwritelife#writerscommunity#soml#optionscafe#learntheartofloving#bethebest#workonyourself#beyourself#beharmless