Surface answers as to why you’re not having sex with your partner: -I’m too tired
-I’m too busy
-I have a long day tomorrow
-My sex drive is too low
-We don’t sleep in the same bed
-I’m too stressed / I can’t turn my brain off
-The kids are always around
Here’s the real reason - you have a hard time being vulnerable with this person, which means it’s not about the physical act of sex, but the intimacy behind it.
It’s up to you to dig deeper and uncover the real reasons you’re resisting.
Lots of love,
Allison & Elvin