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I love these two pics a lot. They represent how important our jobs are and how important we are to each other. Learning the compromises of work and love and I love how we do this together; I love us. She is my number one of my heart. At church she is (future) pastor’s wife and at the university I am (future) professor’s wife. I am such a better person with @jay.dee.phd as a partner. She inspires me and her love is real good love. I can’t wait to marry you, Jessy. ❤️ #DocAndRev #AllHers #SheIsMine #HighFemme #SoftButch #Love

I literally squatted in this bush for the aesthetic, doing it for the gram as the youths call it ••• 📷: Scott and the airbrush app ••• 🌳🌼🌿: by god 🤘🏾#naturehoe #atx #softbutch

When you're pretending to be construction site trade but nobody's fooled. #softbutch

ur jealous we're gay - amy
#gaaaaaaay #hardfemme #softbutch

I love soft butch Kate and this video sm cred: @iloveninosmom #soft #butch #softbutch

Serving Soft Butch (wish I were a) College Professor Realness™ #me #gay #cub #softbutch #pinkhair

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I love these two pics a lot. They represent how important our jobs are and how important we are to each other. Learning the compromises of work and love and I love how we do this together; I love us. She is my number one of my heart. At church she is (future) pastor’s wife and at the university I am (future) professor’s wife. I am such a better person with @jay.dee.phd as a partner. She inspires me and her love is real good love. I can’t wait to marry you, Jessy. ❤️ #DocAndRev #AllHers #SheIsMine #HighFemme #SoftButch #Love

Colors are everything 🌈
Had such a blast hosting #Kesha night at Mother on Saturday! Can’t wait to see @iiswhoiis live on Halloween! ✨






#lolmcfiercen #sfdrag #sfdragqueen #drag #dragqueen #dragqueens #yasqueen #queen #instadrag #whatbow #beardedlady #hardfemme #softbutch #fringe #rainbow #colorsareeverything #fan #beyoncefan #fightslikeagirl

I really want to do more masculine-styled shoots, but I don't have the right wardrobe.
Any skinny boys with big booties wanna help a girl out? 📸: emspace photography
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(PS, I still have openings in Omaha for Friday evening and Monday morning!)
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#androgynous #androgynousmodel #boi #butch #softbutch #queer #lesbian #masc #model #kcmodel #kcphotography #ksphotography #ksmodel #omahamodel #travelingmodel #bwportrait #attitude #fierce #badbitch #genderbending #genderisfake

When street ads get real. #anneklein

#inktober2017 #witch #inkwash #softbutch Day 21(late). Just your friendly neighborhood soft butch witch.

PART 2 DEAR BLACK SUNSHINE

Crisis is no longer the motivator in my Life.
I no longer need crisis to be the spark for Passion, Self-Care, and Unconditional Love.
I do not need to be near death to create, maintain and balance happiness in my daily life. I may move slow in so many areas of my life lmao (I even walk slow HA love it !). However, discernment says direction. Know your next step.
So, where to next Black Sunshine?
The world awaits us, the blessings are bountiful and beautiful.

Love,
B.D Cook

P.S- This does not make me ‘better’ or 'all knowing’. This lesson makes me happier, a freedom that cannot be taken away °
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#lightworker #divinefeminine #blacklesbians #blacklgbt #qwoc #softbutch #butch #metoo

PART 1
Dear Black Sunshine,

Currently, closing out the biggest cycle of my life. Karmic lessons are learned for me to safely move on…
However, the most complicated part of my process is maintaining the feeling of Safety.

Unconciously, running myself into crisis by accepting and contributing to co-dependent relationships.
Setting poor boundaries, being elusive or ‘dreamy’ (not willing to accept reality), when I felt violated holding back my Truth,
Exercising the ‘emotional door slam,’ allowing my expectations to rule my needs…
VS.
Burning out. Internalizing and enduring another’s pain and trauma.
Undergoing physical, verbal or emotional abuse because vulnerability and softness is often supicious. Especially, if you identify with masculinity and you are able to create a safe/ healthy space. And you are able to check your shit. All of the rage and justice that was meant for her abuser, absentee father, or ex. was dumped onto me. A lot of acting out occured:
-Being called ‘bitch'
-Slapped, etc.
-Constantly assessed/judged
Because often times, masculinity shows us - “It is not Safe to Love.” So, I recieved a lot of:
-What do you want from me?
-Why are you so nice to me?
-Are you really this nice?
-So, you’re not dating anyone else but me?
-Why do you like me?
-Why do you Love me?
-I’m not enough.
-I’m too much.
-You really don’t care about me.

These are all symptoms of a global health struggle which is Violence Against Women.
As a identified masculine woman, I understand that masculinity is an attitude, a behavior bound by systems of power reared by White Supremecy/ Violence. I understand that my sisters are hurting…
I have a duty.

These relationships have served their purpose and I honor each and every one. This is not about blaming or shaming. This is for Her. This dialogue and Love.
Furthermore,
*Being Black, Lesbian, Queer, and not of Christian Faith…'Life is crisis.’ Constantly, at war. I have been rocked to my core by childhood sexual abuse, bullet , and car.
My body is no stranger to violence.

TO BE CONTINUED...
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#lightworker #divinefeminine #toxicmasculinity #blacklesbians #blacklgbt #qwoc #softbutch #butch #lgbt

My best friend takes the best pics.

Yesterday I wore overalls (thrifted) a Halloween crop top (self made) and green lipstick (Serpentina by @limecrimemakeup ). I'm 32. I looked awesome. Wear whatever the heck you want and look awesome too. (Eyes are Cuddle and Cappuccino, highlight is Voodoo, by @looxi_beauty )#riotsnotdiets #curvyfashion #curvy #girlswithtattoos #girlswithgauges #girlswithshorthair #lgbtbabes #croptop #halloween #skeleton #creepycute #serpentina #looxibeauty #overalls #businesssensual #workwear #workselfie #retaillife #greenlipstick #cuteandcurvy #hardfemme #softbutch #septum #october #fallfashion #voodoo #thrifted #selfmade #sewistsofinstagram

*sneezes loudly in non-binary* 🤧 camera on my phone is as blurry as I feel today
#softbutch #pithairdontcare #sickday #spooktober #sofasogood #😷 #shortblondehair #lemsiptime #smokeyeye #selfiesunday #cantfightthehighlight

ur jealous we're gay - amy
#gaaaaaaay #hardfemme #softbutch

HA. Unapologetic. °
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Photo Cred: Google Images
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#blacklesbians #genderqueer #softbutch #butch #lgbtq

Another day another seminal look #dyke #softbutch #dykefemme #vintage #secondhand #preloved

We went on an open air 🚂 today and got to see ridiculously gorgeous views in the Lehigh Valley Gorge.🍂🍁🌻#DocAndRev #SoftButch #HighFemme #FallFemmeFeels

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