My twins Father abandoned me 4 hrs after learning we were pregnant. Saying I was his soulmate but not Lover. He'd been seeing me for a whole year but we weren't Lovers? That's not what he was telling me all along.
As if I wasn't already in shock & heartbroken, the worst was yet to come. He pressured me over & over for an abortion. In fact they were the only words he expressed to me. He didn't show any empathy for our situation at all. He was worried about himself and no one else in this equation. Once he finally accepted that as a spiritual being, abortion wasn't an option for me, he disappeared completely. I waited a few weeks and reached out again. Guess what he said next?
He accused me of intentionally falling pregnant to trap him. Because everything was still only about him. This man has no career, no money, no car, no house and is emotionally immature. At 34yo I have 2 businesses, I own everything, a 16yo already, travel plans, business plans & bring a lot to a partnership. He's so self absorbed that he believes someone would trap him because he's such a catch 🙄
Please, he brings nothing to the table yet has the audacity to accuse me of something so dispicable. This is a man I spoilt and treated exceptionally well. A man I never lied to, never hurt, never caused any problems for what so ever.... a man who had a very high opinion of me but took me and my love for granted for a whole year.
He hasn't reached out since we found out that we are having twins because he met another woman on our last holiday together. Thank you for showing your true colours and making my decision to do this on my own easier. Now watch me raise two beautiful babies to never act as selfish and appalling as you continue to act.