Real talk: Last week my divorce was final. Suddenly everything slowed way down, my kids' schedules, our social calendar, appointments, everything. It made me realize how much I have been depending on the "busy" to get me through this time.
When your marriage ends, whether you want it to or not, it leaves a void and you FEEL it. You can't fill it with a bunch of "busy." Believe me, I've tried.
I was talking to my best friend last night and she let me know the slowness has come to me now for a reason; it's time. It's time to feel, it's time to heal, it's time to be okay with not being busy. So I will be doing just that today- but first caffeine... If you are going through something hard, remember to give yourself permission to feel it. If you don't, it will keep chasing you until you pay attention.