I snapped this from the back cover of "She Comes First" - the thinking mans guide to pleasuring a woman by Ian Kerner.
Yes! Yes, yes, and more yes's!
The problem is that for most of us our only exposure to sex education growing up was the very basic elementary school health class unit. Where we so in depth learned that we'll menstruate once a month, boys will want to have sex with us, and not to get pregnant. *eye roll*
This was then layered with learning how to fuck by watching porn. Never were we taught or encouraged how to tune into our bodies and learn what pleasures US - what feels good to US! Nor, were men taught how sensitive a woman's body really is and the patience it takes to bring her to orgasm.
It's been through these struggles of my own and a deep hunger to experience another realm of sexuality that's led me to MANY different books and teachings, including, but not limited to this book and flying to the other side of the world to study at a Tantric school on the tiny island of Koh Phangan, Thailand. It's what's led me to becoming a certified Erotic Sex Coach in addition to the Life Coaching I already offer. Because I deeply believe that pleasure is the pathway to everything we desire. And pleasure starts in our BODIES. It takes time and it takes patience to navigate the path of pleasure in a world that's taught us to cut ourselves off from it in an effort to land on the desired end goal. It's my life's mission. To bring home as many people as possible to the pleasure of their own bodies and in turn the pleasure of their own life's path.