A little bit of fantasy and imagination in the bedroom goes a long way, so I thought I’d share some sexy themed advice with everyone for their next night of passion
. You don’t have to talk in a funny accent or buy an expensive costume (unless you really want to), just ask your partner if they want to have some fun and try something new next time you’ve got a night to yourselves.
If you’ve never tried role-playing in the bedroom, you might think it sounds lame or would feel silly and embarrassing. But lots of us imagine sexy scenarios in our mind when we masturbate, and this is just the next step up from that! Whether you want your partner to pretend to be a sexy nurse helping their patient “feel better” or a police officer handcuffing and “punishing” you for being naughty, a little game of pretend can keep things fun and different.
And even if you don’t go as far as actually role-playing, there are other games you can play. Try teasing each other all the way up until you’re just about to orgasm and then easing off. Do this a few times and you’ll be begging to climax, and it’ll be that much better and hotter when you finally get there. Everyone gets turned on by the pleasure sounds their partner makes – it lets you know you’re doing a good job and they’re enjoying it. Even if you’re not usually a noise-maker, think about using moans and reassuring phrases like “right there” and “keep going” to let them know just what feels the best. Ask them if what you’re doing to them feels good too, so that you can improve your bedroom game for next time.
You should talk about everything that was good afterward too. It can feel a little embarrassing to talk about sex outside the bedroom but they’ll feel encouraged knowing what you like and focusing on it in the future. It’s also a great way to get in the mood, thinking about past experiences that were really hot or felt really good.
So there you go! A night (or a few nights) of fun and fantasy. Start out simple and branch out from there, you never know what you might discover you’re really into.