One day I made a conscious decision to being okay with walking away from people. I realized respecting myself was better than holding on to dead relationships. If I couldn’t get what I was putting in, then it obviously was one sided. I want to matter to the people that matter to me and if I can’t get that I am willing to let it go. Easier said than done, yes, but very necessary for your piece of mind. If you don’t first respect yourself then you would take any rubbish that someone brings your way. Let yourself matter more, is it selfish? eh, it could be depending on the angle your looking at it. That’s okay though, sometimes you have to be a little selfish to be happy and I’m fine with that.