Remember when I made that post about not dating anymore because I was just tired of what I was receiving?
Yeah well. Things have changed.
I guess I’m feeling like my old self again because I have decided to say YES instead of just closing myself off to interested suitors in order to stay protected and in my little bubble. What is interesting is that I have had a huge wave of interest from men I am actually attracted to. I’ve been going out on dinner dates, dancing under the moonlight, giggling with sweet texts and messages, and just generally rejecting any behavior I deem unacceptable no matter how gorgeous that man is.
If you want me, show me.
If your effort is weak. The answer is No.
I can't STAND a lazy man.
I’m not going out with you.
And no, I don’t feel bad.
Man up. I'm not ya' mama.
If you don’t call or text me things like “How Are You?” “I’ve Been Thinking of You” “When Can I See You” consistently? Somebody else is.
I’m saying yes to legitimate effort and true emotion. I’m saying no to lackadaisical whims and child-like behavior. I am a grown woman that has been through more pain than probably anyone you’ve ever known. I am not here to take anymore unnecessary foolishness from someone I may allow to be my King and ruler over my body.
It’s a great feeling only accepting what you know you deserve. Saying NO to lack of care and unfocused attention is so liberating. Dating is now FUN for me! And the great thing is, when my husband does show up, it will be so easy to spot him. Because He will make it known that he is here to stay and that all the other men need to go ahead and pick someone else, because this Queen is now taken and we are preparing our Kingdom.
Be free and live in your worth ladies, and enjoy the spoils of the man that deserves you. You’ll know because he will always be there and doesn’t forget to ask, “How was your day?” There is nothing like a man that loves God and is not afraid to go after a real woman of God in order to seal his destiny in Heaven and claim his rewards from The Most High.