I used to give a fuck.
In fact, I used to give lots of fucks but one day I stopped giving a fuck about the things I really didn't need to give a fuck about and decided to reserve my fucks for the things that did, and do you know what happened?
My life got easier. Simpler. Clearer.
I could focus better, spend more time with my family, make more money, create more freedom. I could do more fun things, have more adventures, be myself unapologetically, I grew in confidence and self belief and I stopped doing things I didn't want to do or behaving a certain way to keep people happy.
All because I stopped giving a fuck.
I would highly recommend not giving a fuck to you if you are currently giving too many fucks about things that quite frankly, don't need to be given a fuck about.
Things like... - Other people's opinions. - Other people's drama's.
- Keeping people happy by doing things that make you miserable. - Agreeing to go to events that you don't give a toss about. - What people think.
- Looking a certain way to fit in with society's expectations. - Fitting into a nice little box with a pretty label. - Being beach body ready by the summer (fuck off!) Save your fucks! Reserve them for things such as... - Doing the things you love and are passionate about. - Being a fucking good person. - Those who support you and encourage you unconditionally. - Your dog (see point above).
- Family & friends (the cool ones). - Being yourself.
- Taking and creating opportunities. - Putting ideas into action. - Creating a huge positive impact in the world. - Looking the way you bloody well want to.
What's the one main thing that you need to stop giving a fuck about to get to where you want to be?