I want you to consider: If being faithful is easy, then why do so many people cheat?
Have you asked your partner if they’ve always been faithful, or what their thoughts on cheating are? If not… it is time to. When you know what your values are, it will be way easier to navigate rough waters.
And just to clarify, I’m not only talking about physical encounters. Many people limit their definition of cheating to physical encounters. However, most infidelities don’t leap to the physical. People tend to work their way up to the physical point, but what about all those missteps taken on the way there? This is sooo important to face.
Are you a person who wonders if you can be with the same partner for the next 70+ years? If you are, it is totally normal. We change thoughts, jobs, financial situations, beliefs, life experiences, and cells all the time, so why not partners? I have had so many clients struggle with the internal dialogue that I love my partner completely, and I am also curious about the explorations and variety in the big world that I am missing. I cannot speak to what you should do, but I can tell you that by having an open and clear dialogue about it, and really addressing the fears, the needs, and the cravings, you can openly and honestly navigate these important issues, instead of avoiding them and inadvertently hurting someone by denying the truth inside. The silence has often done more damage in relationships, than the free feeling of having the conversation on the table.
The less we hide… the more faithful we are to ourselves and consequently our partners.
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