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Great evening! #REALationships

Bless my makers. We have been working together for 10 years. They have watched my boys grow up and I theirs#realationships #ethics #keepitlocal #madeinaustralia #fashionrevolution @fash_rev_ausnz

Remembering an awesome time with some kiddos talking about dating and marriage. Honored to share the stage with this power couple, Justin and Emily! #Realationships #Adventuring

Getting so so excited to preach with my stud/Husband @DonniePetty THIS Tuesday night @thebridgedfw on #REALationships! Bonus, YOU could win a blind date! Click @thebridgedfw to find out how! Come hang. 7PM #bridgeblinddate

To all my #friends in #realationships

Thank you Bishop @jamesraytaylor and Lady Kay @greater4kay for showing us that we can be in love, in ministry, and be "salt bae" 😂😂😂
#REALationships #InLoveInMinistry#SaltBae

It's not just that people lacking in self-love view their relationships more negatively—they may also enter more negative relationships in the first place, selecting and staying with partners who don't treat them well.
According to research on self-verification, people with negative self-views are sometimes drawn to those who see them as they see themselves—that is, negatively. Low self-esteem is also linked with feeling less deserving of happiness, which could lead people to tolerate poor treatment. 
Does this mean that high self-esteem is better for relationships? Not necessarily. At the higher extreme, self-esteem can move toward narcissism, which involves self-centeredness and inflated self-views. In relationships, those with narcissistic traits are often interested in partners who enhance their own self-image in some way—for example, those they perceive as especially attractive or successful. What may seem on the surface to be love and admiration may turn out to be more about exploitation and game-playing. A narcissist's interest may also be fleeting. (Narcissism may be one reason why celebrity couples' relationships rarely seem to last.) Even when high self-esteem doesn't reach narcissistic extremes, it's not necessarily an asset in relationships. Research suggests that people with high self-esteem are more likely than others to use "exit" strategies when problems arise rather than taking more constructive approaches. And people with high self-esteem that is fragile and contingent on external validation (as self-esteem often is) are more likely to become defensive or blame others when facing their own transgressions.
Self-love, then, may not be as essential to relationships as we sometimes make it out to be. What seems to be more healthy is self-acceptance—that is, viewing yourself as a basically good person who is worthy of love, without needing to prove yourself or outshine others. A self-accepting person is less likely to burden a partner with either excessive reassurance-seeking or excessive criticism.
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Thank you Bishop @jamesraytaylor and Lady Kay @greater4kay for showing us that we can be in love, in ministry, and be "salt bae" 😂😂😂
#REALationships #InLoveInMinistry#SaltBae

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sorry (not sorry) for the unexpected *P😸bomb* 🙀 but please FOCUS instead on the nuggets of wisdom that the young sista is serving up!!! #feelme @amandaseales is one of the realest realists on the gram!! And if you can't follow her because she flips back & forth between articulate speak & street slang, then "your inability to understand different types of vernacular is deleterious to your growth.... beyoooootch!" 😂🤣🤣🤣#stillmyfav post you ever made! Much love sis! You forever crack me the hell up while simultaneously dropping knowledge... WATCH HER ON @hbo starting back THIS SUNDAY on @insecurehbo
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Great evening! #REALationships

Aim for more in life and never settle.#life #work #realationships #itgetsbetter

Fill in the blank, friends!
"A REAL – ationship is:___________. "
Let's start the conversation on what a real relationship is, or should be, share with us your thoughts below!
Taylor's answer is: "A relationship that embraces the good, the bad, and the weird. Is not perfect, and still awesome!"
Jake's answer is: "Loving each other even when we're both hangry."
What's yours?
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Ich bin glücklich solang du an meiner Seite bist ❤️💎 #realationships #realationshipgoals #love #italiancouple #couplegoals #mylove #mygirl #myboy

@greater4kay and I are excited about #REALationships tonight 7pm @hvcla! Can't wait to be with you all! This is going to be a great night!

To all my #friends in #realationships

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**Rant**
I just have to say something; women, men you don't need approval from someone else to be happy. You don't need to be in a relationship to feel validated or important or even "normal". Some may say I have no room to be saying this because I've never been in a relationship myself. But I've witnessed and counselled many others, healthy and unhealthy. I've seen what a breakup does to a person, and also what the ridicule of not having someone can do to someone's self esteem. I've been called out for my being single plenty of times, I've had my sexuality questioned, I've been asked if I "put myself out there enough", if I'm just a prude, and if my being too damaged to let people in is stopping me. But in reality I'm still young for fuck sakes, and many of you are too. What's the rush? I'm not going to force a relationship if I see no interest. One day I'll meet the right guy. But for now, at least, I'm still focusing on me. Just as many others should do. Its okay if you're single. It's okay if you're not. Just know there's nothing wrong with you, it's everyone else who decides to throw judgment and create opinions when they have no place to.
So I'll just continue on with a smile, fuck what others think. I'm just fine on my own! 💀💋
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