When we are at harmony with ourselves, the universe is in harmony with us as well. The opposite has also been seen. Those who are ill at ease with themselves are the ones who end up taking their anger, hurt, and uneasy feelings out on others. As good rarely comes of that, I would have to recommend that we find ways to come to grips with ourselves, and try to live in harmony with ourselves. Find the silver lining in the dark cloud. It may corny, but down the other path lies dis-harmony, unease, and even a little madness!