After my divorce, since I had something to prove, I went hard into the ‘dating scene’ after being in a relationship for a decade. In my mind I thought because I had no kids, a double masters, and was high-key cute it’d be a breeze to find a temporary boo. I had all the dating apps in hoe-tation (Insecure reference. Get your life). I had men tell me that I was too old to not have kids and that I was selfish for pursuing an education instead. Because I modeled that they were intimidated. Because I had a lot of degrees that I was ‘throwing it in their faces’. One even said that because he had a dick that meant he was was the boss of me. One asked me if I was talking to other dudes. Um, none of your business, sir. We ain’t together. No hi. No hello. No how are you?
The ones who did make it past being ridiculous, didn’t have much to say. Hitting me with the “wyd” and “wanna chill at the crib?” One even went as far as to asking me to pick him up because he didn’t have a car... Unfortunately, chivalry is almost dead. At least where I’m from. I found dating in London to be higher quality.
Right now, I’ve sworn off dating. All the apps are deleted and will remain so. Men come up to me now and I hiss and claw at them. For some reason, you gotta have 5 baby daddies and have black lips from prolonged smoking and little education to make them feel good about themselves.
Sorry. I’ll stay single and thriving. And will never lower myself just to say I gotta man like I see so many women doing these days.
Give me your worst dating stories, because I wanna laugh and I know I’m not the only one. 😂
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