So yes this was such a big post it took 3 albums each with 10 pics but it was worth it. So please read it but don't forget to read # First and Second Part first.
About the second and the third picture here☝ I'm actually unhappy to say it but it actually was an insult even though Ursa maybe didn't want it to be that way. But it turned out like that and it was actually true. Only that little Zuko couldn't understand it well and probably thought it was encouraging and supportive. It wasn't. Now that I've read this, it seems to me like Ursa was desperately trying to be a good mother - to Zuko but failed even there. The two of them bonded and had a strong relationship but even that wasn't a good parenthood. I especially feel bad for Azula because as I said I've never thought so much about this before and never realized how lonely she must've been all the time. When Mai and Ty Lee weren't there and when Ozai was busy and didn't have time for her - all she could do was to watch Zuko and Ursa spending time together and bonding with each other. She definiety didn't fit there so she must've spent hours walking around and setting things on fire, she probably also spent a lot of time reading and doing things for school, but thinking about it all just makes me pity her again. Now that I feel that way I realize that Azula was lonely and she knew that of course but she didn't want anyone to actually notice so all her life (just like a hallucination of Ursa told her in "The Search") she's hidden behind a mask of intimidation and fear so no one would feel sorry for her. And she succeeded because she made people fear her, but at the end, when she went crazy people started doing exactly what she was trying to avoid all her life - they started to pity her and feel sorry for her... I also do so too when I realize how hard she tried to make her mom like her but failed, which is almost nothing alike to Azula most ppl think she is. It is all a bit tragic really, isn't it? Honestly at the end all this made me just love Azula more and, tho I didn't quite want that, love Ursa and Zuko less : ( I'm not really happy to say it but Ursa indeed had a big role in ruining Azula's life😢