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I lost it when I read, “If you’re a successful man, a woman is supposed to SUBMIT and do her part while the man handles business” ... UHH WHAT?!
I literally have NO ATTRACTION towards women who want to ride my coat tail and can’t think for themselves. He must not have watched BLACK PANTHER to see how those men worshipped their women. I can’t even tell you how HAPPY I am that my wife is the Boss lady of our house because let me tell you, I would be lost if I had to do half the things she does! Do I believe men should take care of the FINANCIALS of the house, be the leader SPIRITUALLY and make those tough decisions and be the protector? Yes! Absolutely! But I don’t give a shit how successful I am. My woman does not ever have to SUBMIT to me, throw away her dreams and follow my direction because I have money.
Nah, we win together baby. You don’t feel like cooking tonight? Look, I got you. I’ll cook tonight and clean up the kitchen because I know we both had a long day. Sometimes she has to be the one who talks me off of the ledge and keeps me spiritually grounded because I think about some crazy stuff that’s not of good intention!
The point is, ladies and gentlemen, don’t ever get in a relationship with someone who tries to use SUBMISSION as a way of making you a slave. Submission is a beautiful thing when respected and done the right way and it applies to both parties. Not just one sided. Ya’ll supposed to be building TOGETHER! And btw, I love my black woman. The struggle is what makes them beautiful, hard working women who don’t take shit from no man. And only a weak dude would be afraid of a woman who stands up for herself, speaks her mind and draws the line for what will and will not happen! That’s just my opinion 🤔💭