Good morning ☕ life is not always easy, sometimes it's out of your control and not your fault. I try and stay positive tho because I understand that the alternative would feel like being trapped in hell...I, like a lot of us have had some really painful experiences, which are with me, a part of me and there is no doubt we will have a lot more.. I have worked for years with people that try to avoid pain, either with drugs/alcohol or by avoidance of responsibility.. I think on some level we have all tried to avoid it, you may ask why would we not want to avoid it? I believe that we have to feel pain to feel truly alive, our emotions are all important we can't just have happiness, how would we know it was happiness, if we numbed our emotions , we would not feel the bad but we would not feel the good either.. We cannot pick and choose our emotions we have to feel them all...And that's ok because unless we understand this we will not feel alive we would be stuck in a place where we would be afraid of change, we would not take risks, or have New experiences now I'm guessing that really would be a life filled with pain❤Me & Steve took a risk by loving each other, imagine if I thought no, relationships are too painful, I would not have found love..
Have the best Monday's filled with love, pain, anger, sadness, happiness, take risks, embrace change turn negatives into positives, if you can't because the sadness is overwhelming that's ok too we can't control it we just have to do our best to understand it. Just be careful you don't miss the good bits the little glimpses of happiness, birds singing. Sun shining, the little things that are always there we just have to work hard at seeing them sometimes ☀ #positivethinking #doyourbest #itsoktofeelpain #takerisks #embracechange #mindfulness #homeontheavenue