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"O futuro pertence àqueles que acreditam na beleza de seus sonhos." / "The future belongs to those that believe in the beauty of their dreams." #blogueira #positiveenergy #natureza

As you move on don’t take the bitterness, hatred, anger or any negativity with you. You’ll be carrying that stuff around like a shopping bag, ready to offload to anyone that will listen. It WILL affect all present and future relationships of any kind. So let it go. .
#focusonwhatyouwant #thepowerofnow #lawofattraction #positiveenergy #sourceenergy #BeDoHave

A friend recently asked me, if I ever feel sad or annoyed, when people write me nasty comments, unfollow me or talk about me behind my back.
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And yes, I do sometimes. Especially when I first started my blog and IG. I could really obsess about people criticizing me or treating me badly.
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Some people get offended with my lifestyle. Some people look for mistakes and are ready to attack. Some people have their own issues -they are angry or feel inadequate, and they blame SoMe and think that happy people pose their pictures or fake it. Some people assume stuff about me, without knowing the full picture. Some people - “friends” even - unfollow me and talk shit about me, behind my back and to my other friends. Reporters twist my words to make more catchy headlines and some of my followers buy it and get angry.
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And that is annoying. I wish I could share about my life without offending people and without being an open target for shit storms and petty speculations. And sometimes I consider stopping - closing my IG and blog and just do our thing without the negative energy.
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But I have grown some thicker skin. I am used to it, and I don’t take that much in anymore. In my experience, if people attack or get offended, it is based on their own personal issues and I can’t prevent that.
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I sometimes try to explain to them, that my lifestyle is not a critique of them. That my personal opinions are just that - my opinions. We don’t have to agree and if they are happy with their own choices, they shouldn’t care what I think. I believe in freedom and conscious choices and I am not invested in what other people choose. I just want people to know, that there are many different ways and how well this have worked for me - as inspiration. They can take what they can use in their own life - or not.
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But I don’t want to spend my life defending myself, so I have learned to care less about what other people think of me. I am happy and I get so much positive energy from friends, people on SoMe, and from people approaching me on the streets, when they recognize me and my family. So THANK YOU guys for that 🙏
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And the positives outweighs the negatives by far ❤️

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