Safety in self!
Each of us consists of a Divine Masculine & a #DivineFeminine aspect. Every man &every woman is made of both. The idea is to have the perfect balance between masculine safety & stability and feminine nurture & creativity. This creates the WHOLE HUMAN BEING.
I used to wake up unable to breathe, gripped w/ #fear & #anxiety from the moment I drew breath. My very life was unstable and my existence did not feel safe. I felt that most every aspect of my safety & my life were threatened. I was afraid to live.
I responded to this in a most Human way. I developed a big strong voice, an aggressive personality, (well at least on the outside), & I built a cock #diesel body that no one would want to mess with. At my biggest, I remember walking into a black barbershop one time. As I came in, all the barbers looked up, stopped & said, "We didn't do It!". That was my idea of success; to be able to walk in a place and have most every man stop & look at me, somewhat on guard. I felt that I created safety by making others fearful. By creating a body or an existence where others were deterred from messing w/ me, I became safe. This is what I thought anyway.
Fast-forward quite some years & I have truly created safety within self in an entirely different way. I have opened myself up to a new way of existing. I have let the nurturing, gentle parts of me come to heel the unsafe, shaken parts of me. I have let "her" teach "him" that we are safe within self. I have let her teach him that it's okay to be afraid, that it's okay to experience emotion- that it's not just okay, BUT DIVINE, to be HUMAN.
In healing myself, I have created an unshakable existence. People cannot cast crap on me & make me fearful, now. Because the safety I have created COMES FROM WITHIN, not around. Therefore, as I created it, I am the only one who can take it away. 🙏🏽As we move forward during this time in our world, it is imperative that each one of us become safe within Self. Once we create the safety within, we can THRIVE! And remember, nobody can take from you what you created for Self.
I LOVE YOU
I LOVE YOU
I #LOVE YOU
#ImproveTheHumanExperience #TheChieftess #BeHuman #SelfLove