Happy Father’s Day to all the goofy, thoughtful, jolly, wise, tender—and everything in between—dads out there. You’re probably not following this feed, but we see you and love you. Not everyone has a dad to celebrate today, and that’s okay too. You’re not alone. Just replace the ‘dad’ on this flowchart with ‘Mom’, ‘grandpa’ or whoever you want to sub in. It’s a wildcard/free pass/+1 AKA choose your own MVP.