🤦🏼♀️I know l'm going to hear it over this post but men listen up!!!....ladies can't stand a CHEAPSKATE......While gold diggers certainly do exist — to the dismay of many wealthy and not-so-wealthy men — even the most unmaterialistic woman will admit to not liking cheap men. You see, women view how a man spends — or fails to spend — his money as a direct reflection of how generous and giving he is as a person. For example, a man who calculates his every dime and rarely treats his woman, or his friends for that matter, will be seen as a tightwad who puts his own bottom line above all else.
Furthermore, they will assume that this trait applies to all aspects of the man's character, from how open he is with his feelings to how much love he is able to give. This is not to say that women equate love with money; simply that women will be more drawn to a man who is generous both in finances and spirit. And it doesn't necessarily mean you have to spend a bunch of money, but don't be frugal in the first month or two when your taking her on dates...it's such a turn off, it's a huge red flag, and it's a deal-breaker for me 💯🤦🏼♀️ 📷 by @portraitsbydanailya #dealbreakerindating #imoldschoollikethat #treatmelikealadyilltreatyoulikeaking