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#BlendedandBlack loves you @joycejade83!!!
Check out her story. This is a Father's Day Blessing!
After 33 years of never knowing who I came from, I have found my daddy! I was told that he was a crazy, dead beat, crackhead who gave up his parental rights. This is NOT who he was at all! This man paid child support for me over 18 years and I NEVER knew a thing. I spent most of my life hurting and angry with him for not being there when he wasn't allowed to be there and I'm his ONLY CHILD. I'm so furious right now because when it's all said and done, it was about a check. 33 years of not knowing a thing other than a BS story and a name! I'm disgusted to the point where I want to go blow up every person that participated in this lie. I was a kid and did not have to suffer the way I did mentally for years. Had he known what was really going on in my home, I probably could have lived with him and had a life full of love. You all know I found my step dad dead in 2001 on April fools day. I commend him on taking care of kids that weren't his however, he loved his son the way my dad should have been around to love me. The years I spent getting beat by my step dad while my mom sat back and watched was bs. She participated in that shit too but never laid a finger on the son they had together. BS! Yea, I'm putting this out there! If you are a woman with a kid and you can't stand your baby daddy don't keep him from his child. Even if he's broke and can't do anything to help you financially, that love is worth more than a dollar. Let these men be in your kids life! Scars like this run deep well into adulthood and it's not right. Needless to say, I have found my dad and now I can close that door. I asked him why did he pay child support when he wasn't allowed to be there and he told me he just wanted to make sure I had everything I needed! This is the definition of a real man. Please (((LIKE))) and ((SHARE)) my story! I may be able to change the mind frame of a woman who keeps her kids away from their daddy. Be blessed!!! My dad is swagged up ain't he... lol
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