The amount of self-defeating that comes with astrology and people looking into it is certainly one of my most major pet peeves. The amount of times that it's mentioned on forums that someone has "difficult placements", a "difficult chart", a "difficult transit" etc. is through the roof. I can't have Love because... I can't have X because... I'll never... It is one thing: immensely disempowering!
None of it contributes to any type of solution.
I feel placements are often used as an excuse. And it's also not true since you can use astrology as a tool to get insight into gifts, talents, create understanding, point out the pitfalls and opportunity & solutions that are ALWAYS THERE. And then use that information to your advantage.
In general in life (and in astrology) one can easily stare at all considered bad and choose (it's a choice) to not acknowledge what is actually working and blame it on the chart instead of stepping up and healing whatever it is you bumps into.
Life can be created in a way that is suiting to you. The own, inner power is always present & can be called in at any given time. Even if there was no awareness of that before and you are just learning that things do not happen to you, but you play a part in it and can choose and even take control of where you are headed.
Same with astrological information. What to do with it, is totally up to each individual. You can sit and complain about a "bad" chart/placement or you can look at the opportunity of the chart and get up and start addressing what's bothering you, heal it and create new outcomes for yourself.
You can have love, the house in the sun, soul-based living and whatever you personally desire. You have to be willing to do the work though and willing to step up for yourself.
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