We all have come across a situation wherein you have to face your emotions and let them out by your eyes or mouth. Lucky are those people who can actually let their guards down!
For the rest, it’s not a walk of cake. Dealing with emotions is not a common phenomenon. It takes years and years of deliberate efforts for people to just express themselves.
The only question I’ve in my mind is why it becomes so difficult to think of ways and actions to put yourself out?
For some it’s because of trust issues. They can’t trust people to share their flesh and skin with.
For some, there’s a whole lot of baggage they have been carrying since years that they have accommodated with the same.
And for some, the other way works- being DE-EMOTIONAL! Having so much to say, but the words to come to them. Having so much to express, but the feelings doesn’t come right to them. Having so much to do, but the timings is never in their court. And such people are categorised and tagged as de-motional and being thought of feeling less/ inhumane, which by the way they are not if we really scrutinize their being. It’s always the dilemma that sways the thunder away for them.
Fear of rejection. Fear of failure. Fear of getting shut down. Fear of being used.
So they think it becomes legit to be de-motional.
Less efforts. Less judgements.
I think we all play an equally dominant role in making people de-motional. Because a push is all they need to expose. But we, the freaking beings, can’t really do that. It’s too much of work you know! So let them be the way they’re without all of your opinions.
LET THEM BE DE-MOTIONAL! .
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Love, peace and everything else! .
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