|| SELF-LOVE || Who out there is living under the impression that their happiness is conditional? I am definitely raising my hand 🙋🏻 or at least the old me is. You think you will be happier when you....
Get that bigger house 🏠
That nicer car 🚗
When you have more friends 👨👨👧👦
Or lose thirty pounds 🏃🏻♀️
Or even better you would be happy but you weren't 'born blessed' like some physically or otherwise 🤦🏻♀️ This was me. In high school especially, I even remember stating quite a number of times that I hated myself ❌
My body wasn't right 🤦🏻♀️
My hair didn't look like hers 💇🏻
I needed to lose 15 pounds 🏃🏻♀️
My smile was weird 😄
I didn't have enough friends 👨👨👧👦
If only I was prettier....💄💅🏻👗
I then centered my thoughts on conditional happiness. I KNEW I'd be happy when I got that bigger house, that nicer car, more friends, and more money. I knew it! Everything would fall into place and THEN I could be happy. Right?!
Each time I achieved one of the things on my list...sure, I was happy for awhile. But the other things on the list would eat away at me and I would fall again, needing to achieve something else to be happy. ✅✅✅ Something I've learned over this past year, and I hope everyone takes to heart. Happiness is NOT conditional! Happiness is a CHOICE you make each day. To LOVE YOURSELF no matter what is going on because life happens everyday! And if you live for the conditions, sorry to say but you will never truly be happy even with more money, a new wardrobe and that bigger house.
Focus on loving yourself. Appreciating what you have and you'll find yourself waking up excited for each day ❤️
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