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MATTERS OF THE HEART: LadyB
Hi guys... LadyB's story also challenged my thinking and enhanced my perspective on relationships. I would like to appreciate every single person who contributed on the blog, on instagram, on twitter and especially facebook ... oh and whatsapp too ☺If you have not read the last post, please click here before you continue.
So to all struggling with acceptance, finding true love, etc, here are the responses we got:
1. For the guy to do everything he did, with you being fully aware, suggests that he actually is one honest dude. For that I commend him. He obviously is a player but an honest one. ☺ Sounds paradoxical, yeah? Chances are that he has a sexual addiction he is finding difficult to break from. In making further excuses for him, he probably actually likes you and is more that willing to keep you as a mistress. Therefore, you are the official side chick, if you are willing to settle for less of course
2. That being said, you have a decision to make. Enjoy being the side chick or walk away. In walking away, you will hurt. Especially if he broke the hymen. You would struggle with regret, bitterness, anger, shame, rejection, worthlessness, pain, hurt, the list is endless. But you have to make a mental decision to rise above them. If you can walk out of this, I assure you that it will grow you
3. You need to be honest with yourself whether you truly heard the voice of the Lord or not. Could your attraction to him have made your mind believe you heard God? When he began paying you attention, did that further affirm "what God said? "From the mouth of two or three witnesses the truth is established" Who did you confide in to confirm what God said? Did you tell your Pastor about him? Who do you submit to? Is that person aware that God has said? When sex got into the picture, even if God had said, He would never use sin to affirm His Word. He is too consistent for that. He is not an Author of confusion. Four years is really a long time.. *** To be continued in the comments section***
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