My Happy Marriage
Things I DON'T expect from my husband:
❤ To solve all my problems, he's not God.
❤ To make me happy, that's my responsibility.
❤ To heal all my broken places, once again, he's not God.
❤ To pay for everything, why would I need him to do that when I make money too. And if he pays for everything there's a bunch of stuff he's going to want me to do that I don't want to HAVE TO DO...ie, cook and clean EVERYDAY! (I only want to cook twice a week, eat out, and get a maid 😊) Things I DO expect from my husband:
❤ To be my best friend
❤ To be loyal
❤ To help me solve problems
❤ To add to my happiness
❤ To support and love me when I'm broken
❤ To pray for me and believe in me
❤ To hold me when I need to cry
❤ To add to and not subtract from the great life that we've worked so hard to create ❤ Fun and companionship
❤ To never leave and always have my back, even when life throws us some tough times.
This is my happy marriage and I think it represents what a happy marriage in the 21st Century looks like when both people work. I love who I get to wake up next to everyday. I hope this helps someone.
Equal division of labor, love, and companionship = Partnership. ❤
Oh and he brings me coffee in bed every morning! #winning #myheaven #myboo 😊😂😘