AWAKEN LOVER❤️ What if you went ALL IN? #ThursdayThoughtBubble
What if you gave your partner your all, not holding back anything. Having no fear of what might or might not happen in return. Give up defending yourself from possibly getting hurt.
Jason and I watched a movie the other night that hit home for us and triggered reminders on so many different levels... We were transported to one of the most painful times in our life but yet, cried out in joy for having had the gift of the experience 😭 "Sea of Trees" in my mind is a must see by every married couple out there.
Don't get distracted by the fillers, the illness, the abuse, or the choice the main character wanted to make... It got awful reviews in some articles, and in others there was a glimmer of hope. People seeing the true message of the movie. The hope that couples would see themselves as we did and make a change while they'd still had time.
For us it was a magical opportunity to be reminded of our struggle, which is not different sadly than that of a large majority of couple out there and it also reminded us of our wins through the process.
It reminded us of... 💔 The pain we were in. 💔 The resentment we felt.
💔 The love we withheld. 💔 How we pretended not to love each other as much as we did, because somehow that felt safer. 💔 How we looked for ways to emotionally escape from our relationship. ...and then we were reminded of... ❤️ How far we've come! ❤️ All we have to be grateful for! ❤️ Knowing that we can help others see because we understand the suffering!
Don't be like us and wait till the other shoe drops before you do something about it.
You are getting little nudges every day. Little messages of hope, but nothing will change until you change. Until you are willing to grab this bull by the horn and fight like your life depends on it.
Reach out to me or someone you know and trust who has walked this road successfully, to make a change today.
We think we have all the time in the world, but we don't.
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