Hi there ladies!
We are stopping by to say thank you, thank you for always sticking with us! .
This past two weeks have been the most challenging yet, I never thought I would encounter something harder than breastfeeding but I was wrong! Don’t mean to be a downer but it only gets harder with time ...🙁
This little lady has added bitting to her list of things she figured out how to do, bitting everyone .. her friends, parents, pets and I’m close to loosing my mind .
The transition to daycare was a breeze the first week, the second week has been hell, between her biting other kids, crying, not eating,tantrums, you name it, she’s done it, her lack of not eating has led her to horrendous constipation and to top thing off, she caught a cold! .
Lord Jesus give me strength cause although I’m a good mom, I’m feel like a very shitty mom seen my baby do all this things, bitting makes me think she’s seen a violent behavior, seen her cry at day care makes me wonder if she’s being abused, seen her cry cause she can’t potty makes me feel I’m doing a horrible job at feeding her! Makes me question my mothering abilities, makes me wonder if I’m doing the right thing or if I’m a good mom.
That’s my heart talking 💕
My brain the other hand knows, transitioning to a daycare is hard and most kids have a hard time doesn’t mean they are being abuse is just that change it’s hard, my brain knows that biting is simply to her lack of vocabulary and anxiety to a new environment, and tummy trouble doesn’t mean she’s not eating well, some kids just have harder times than others...
So while I keep telling my heart what my brain knows , I’m here to tell you, things will get harder and more challenging, but so will you, we are all learning, everything takes time and practice.
Your kid is not the only one having a hard time, that doesn’t make you or me a bad mother, is part of growing up mama! Don’t feel guilty!
We are all in this together, hang in there ❤️
plz send your bitting tips my way! ☀️
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